"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I feel damn good today

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Ever have one of those days?

I feel happy, even though I have a ton of school work to do (which means I must keep this short). Girls I know casually said hi first, made good conversation, one even told me I should hang out with her sometime (which reminds me, I didn't get her number. I'm bad at getting numbers when I'm not talking to girls trying to get their numbers :rolleyes: ). I was walking to class and every other person said "hi" to me, because I knew them.

Hope your days are just as good. Life's a blast. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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On the other hand I had a sh!tty day in college today cause of bad test results and someone almost rammed my car on the way out of school.

But then after dinner I had a powerful and exhausting chest/tricep workout (which I just returned from), and now I feel so great...that when I take a nice relaxing sh!t in a couple hours, I'm contemplating whether or not I'm seriously going to wipe my a$$ with the test papers.

Must be the testosterone boost or something.
 

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try to make those "good" days routine. i know exactly how you feel.
 

izza

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Originally posted by Arioch
Ever have one of those days?

I feel happy, even though I have a ton of school work to do (which means I must keep this short). Girls I know casually said hi first, made good conversation, one even told me I should hang out with her sometime (which reminds me, I didn't get her number. I'm bad at getting numbers when I'm not talking to girls trying to get their numbers :rolleyes: ). I was walking to class and every other person said "hi" to me, because I knew them.

Hope your days are just as good. Life's a blast. :)
HAHAHA, awesome.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: Re: I feel damn good today

Originally posted by izza
HAHAHA, awesome.
yeah, that rocks...just keep that momentum going...if you don't stop, the good feeling won't stop either
 
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