"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I feel bad about this -
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
If you disregard the posts by women, you're missing the essence of that site.zekko said:
We don't have that "problem" here.
Just sit through about 15 to 20 threads there, you'll get lightheaded.
Mods will ban you for "making sense". Women and men jump all over you if you go against the forum ideas.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
She has tossed me an invite to meet her on St Barth for a week...and she has no problem with "getting naked ".
Freekin' villas there start at about $4K per week.
Also asked me if I wanted another photo of her, with the comment "Are you a T or A man."
Jeez, whats a guy to do ??
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
zekko said:
I come here on and off every few months to check on things. I remember being to young to come into this forum. guess I got old. This place with it's basic principles are solid gold. Changed my life for the better, PERIOD. Any lost young AFC I would recommend to come here. BUT...
There is also a ton of bull**** on this site from flat out dudes who lie, get there self worth or whatever from these boards acting like something are not.
Humans have innate virtue and morals. It is our passion and compassion that has given us hope and propelled the species forward with survival, instinct, evolution..so on.
I understand the basic principles that define our roles in society. If this place was truely filled with honestly, dignity, openess, honor, and ego was checked at the door. I think much more would be accomplished here in terms of growth of human beings.
To many times I see a cross between a Kingon and a Bord Drone which isn't human at all.
The idea that we should unplug from the "matrix" doesn't mean we should unplug our feelings. Just because we found our sense of rational and logic.
I think both when applied together bring out the best in a Man.
in my time here I have had members tell me that my own Mother and grandmothers were nothing but *****'s too and I should detach from them as well as any woman I date. I should always have control, what a joke, control? really? how can one human among 7 billion have real control. I think that message was lost with control over one's actions compared to everything surrounding us.
I have learned how to make better choices for myself. But the idea that you can do it with out emotion seems impossible to me if you are human.
anyways, I just went off a tangent which was poorly constructed and is filled with my own personal bias.
this forum is the best one on this site. But when I read this thread it sounds like a bunch of arrogant whiny little girls acting like they are so much better then someone or something else.
The best men I have ever met would never do such a thing. I guess they are loser AFC's as well.
it's hard for me to listen when 50 year old men are laughing at and putting down others for there beliefs, no **** they didn't listen.
5string
Master Don Juan
This makes me blush....jophil28 said:Got an email from my girl in Chicago. Turns out that she is also a Travel Writer.
She has tossed me an invite to meet her on St Barth for a week...and she has no problem with "getting naked ".
Freekin' villas there start at about $4K per week.
Also asked me if I wanted another photo of her, with the comment "Are you a T or A man."
Jeez, whats a guy to do ??
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.