"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I failed to approach so I let the board down

byers90

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i feel i should appologize. you'd think after browsing this site for over a year i wouldn't have this problem but i still do.

i sometimes see this cute girl who goes to my uni. when i leave my car at the station and take the subway. i've never really thought i had a chance but i've always admired the scenery whenever possible. today i was standing next to the doors when she came in and sat at a seat close by the opposite row right infront of me. after one stop she got up for some reason and stood next to where i was, little more than an arm's length and a half. very interesting i thought but she was facing the window. well, shortly afterwards she turns her body and points it towards me for what turns out....the rest of the ride! now she turned her head to the side sometimes but she did face me more then once and there was eye contact. i had a very strong urge to say something and you'd think i would given i thought she was cute and she was well facing me for over 5 minutes, little more than 3 ft away...but i didn't. even though i wanted to start a conversation i instantly talked myself out of it thinking i had no chance and i was probably imagining things.....i have a hard time believing girls like me as you can tell.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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