"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I F*cked My Game With A Chick Recently, Why Can't I Get Over Her?

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Alright, so recently I've been hanging with this one chick. Long story short, I ended up giving her too much attention and came off as needy, killing my chances with her. I know I screwed up here and I've already accepted that. Now to call out everyone who's about to say "Omfg duuudue, game other chicks," I am (actually, I flew in solo with 3 chicks sitting together in the caff today and did pretty well.) But I keep finding myself thinking about her. I don't know what's wrong. Any suggestions guys?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Suicide.

And by suicide I mean use that caring about the chick you can't get over to NOT care about the hotter one you're gaming :D
 

Prodigy746

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Vice said:
Suicide.

And by suicide I mean use that caring about the chick you can't get over to NOT care about the hotter one you're gaming :D
Make sure you leave a note saying "This is all your fault NAME ... I hope you feel good."





lol jk ... dood it takes time to forget about her but you will.. give it a week or two without talking or seeing her and you will be all right. Trust me
 
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