I expected alot more... things are not going well.

[DiSt0rTi0n_07]

Anyone ever had bad sex with a chick?

Anyone ever had a chick constantly tell u she wants to have sex with you?

Anyone ever had a chick tell you multiple times throughout sex that she wants to have sex sooo bad?

Ever had a chick just lay limp after that?

This is really bugging me... she raves about how much she wants to have sex, THEN............she lays just there. I feel like a necrofeliac, and thats NOT a good feeling. In fact it bothered me so much I couldn't get hard. I can't just tell her that tho, about her (non existent) sexual abilities...

WHAT DO I DO?????

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Im going to my gfs dorm tonight. Last night friend says he's having a party and I need to come cause he wont see me for a couple weeks. We are good buddies so I say I could probably come (cause I could go for an hour then come back and see my gf) (he wants just me to come, not my gf) but anyways, I say I dunno yet and ill call him tomorrow.

He talks to my gf and says im coming to his party so my gf makes other plans. Earlier today I call my friend and say ill stop by for an hour then goto the dorm. Then he tells me he talked to her and shes busy now.

SO, I talk to her and yeah, tonights off. Im pretty sure she thinks Im ditching her for this party so thats pissed me off completely.

I ask if shes still coming for dinner to meet my parents the following day (reason for back-to-back dates is irrelevant here). NOPE, apparently shes having dinner with her parents that night now.

I don't even know who to blame anything on. She doesnt have a phone so its hard to get ahold of her so
1. in her mind im ditching her.
2. She cancelled dinner.
3. My friend assumed I was staying the night and told her I was definately going and $h!t.

Gimme some help guys, im really really frusterated right now. Any and ALL help is appreciated.

 

[Wyldfire]

She wants to feel close to you but it sounds like she hasn't gotten any enjoyment out of sex and as a result she just kinda lays there like a knot-holed log.

You can probably fix this...but it's going to take some work on your part. Don't rush to sex. Spend A LOT of time gently kissing her neck, touching her and what not. Females don't have an instant on and off switch...you have to warm their engine up first and get them aroused or sex for them will be about as thrilling as getting a pap smear at the ob/gyn office.

 

[Julian]

quit being such a pvssy whipped b1tch boy and go enjoy your friends party.

OMG YOU WONT SEE YOUR GF FOR 1 NIGHT, BOO FVCKING HOO!

 

[DiSt0rTi0n_07]

Julian:
I think u missed the point of the post there Julian. You should try going back, reading it again, and realizing that I dont care about not being there for 1 night.

Wyldfire:
lol, its good advice man but i'm not really rushing into sex. Even when she initiates it she just lays there. I spent consecutive hours on foreplay and she was wet and everything but she doesn move. She is obviously inexperienced, I know that much already. I do think ur right about 1 thing tho. Neither of us are getting any enjoyment out of sex. I'm just not turned on, not the slightest. Could be why you say she doesn't sound like she's enjoying it.

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Keep in mind guys, we've only been going out for like a week. Ditching ur girl for a party doesnt really go well early in the game. I keep getting pushed in to visiting her from -her asking, -her friend, and -my buddy. They keep getting me to come to parties lol.

I'm gonna completely ignore and not say a thing for the next week. I'm pretty sure i've left a strong impression so she should realize what she is missing- Tho im not sure I'm liking this relationship anyways. Time will tell.

Does that sound best for my given situation?