Well just last Friday, which happened to be my one year anniversary, I happened to finally snap or in general terms - grow some balls. I dumped my girlfriend.
For the last year, I haven't been a man, and I didn't even realize it. If it wasn't for the discovery of several articles in magazines about seduction of women, AFC's and such, and the discovery of this forum, I would still be lost.
For the last year, I've gone out with a pretty hot blonde girl; all my friends were in awe at how hot she was. At the beginning of it all, I was super confident, she approached me first at a party and I had a great dialogue. The first night I made out with her and a little more. In less than a week, we had sex.
However, a month in to the relationship, something changed. I don't know what exactly or when exactly, but I became her puppet. She won me over and I became a *****. She stopped giving me as much sex, she started talking to other guys, and I became weak.
To get her attention, or to get her to give me sex, I started taking her on fancy dates and purchasing her fancy items - never realizing it was a complete mistake.
I started getting more miserable, and by the time I spent $700 on her birthday (a fancy hotel room in Los Angeles, gifts, and fancy dinner), I realized that I totally ****ed up and I wasn't a man anymore.
My friends had disserted me, because I was spending so much time with her. After her birthday, I started hanging out with them more for advice. The *****ed me out, and lectured me, and I broke it off with her not much longer on our one year anniversary (when of course she was hanging out with her friends and not me).
She was great at manipulating me, and making me feel like crap. I wish nobody the pain I went through the last few months.
I guess this post is a combination of things. First, to say Hello to the DJ group, been reading for a few weeks, seems like a great crowd. Secondly to inform everybody that plans on being in a relationship to learn the difference between being a man and a *****. Lastly is to ask for advice on starting over and to getting over a relationship.
I'm a little weak right now, I'm rebuilding my masculinity, but I do have confidence. I'm good looking, and I have money, but right now, I don't have the drive or motivation to start getting out there and trying to pick up women - however, in the back of my head, I know I need to push myself or
I'll just be the ******* she turned me in too..
Any advice, please...
For the last year, I haven't been a man, and I didn't even realize it. If it wasn't for the discovery of several articles in magazines about seduction of women, AFC's and such, and the discovery of this forum, I would still be lost.
For the last year, I've gone out with a pretty hot blonde girl; all my friends were in awe at how hot she was. At the beginning of it all, I was super confident, she approached me first at a party and I had a great dialogue. The first night I made out with her and a little more. In less than a week, we had sex.
However, a month in to the relationship, something changed. I don't know what exactly or when exactly, but I became her puppet. She won me over and I became a *****. She stopped giving me as much sex, she started talking to other guys, and I became weak.
To get her attention, or to get her to give me sex, I started taking her on fancy dates and purchasing her fancy items - never realizing it was a complete mistake.
I started getting more miserable, and by the time I spent $700 on her birthday (a fancy hotel room in Los Angeles, gifts, and fancy dinner), I realized that I totally ****ed up and I wasn't a man anymore.
My friends had disserted me, because I was spending so much time with her. After her birthday, I started hanging out with them more for advice. The *****ed me out, and lectured me, and I broke it off with her not much longer on our one year anniversary (when of course she was hanging out with her friends and not me).
She was great at manipulating me, and making me feel like crap. I wish nobody the pain I went through the last few months.
I guess this post is a combination of things. First, to say Hello to the DJ group, been reading for a few weeks, seems like a great crowd. Secondly to inform everybody that plans on being in a relationship to learn the difference between being a man and a *****. Lastly is to ask for advice on starting over and to getting over a relationship.
I'm a little weak right now, I'm rebuilding my masculinity, but I do have confidence. I'm good looking, and I have money, but right now, I don't have the drive or motivation to start getting out there and trying to pick up women - however, in the back of my head, I know I need to push myself or
I'll just be the ******* she turned me in too..
Any advice, please...