"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I either have an outstanding carisma or I cant make a decent OL profile

Who Dares Win

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So Im not hot looking agree on that, the fact is that when I attend a group of people there is always a girl or more than one that likes me, flirt and find me attractive yet in my online dating sites I get virtually no matches once I make a basic selection (not liking all girls).

Pictures:
Profile picture with a decent suit, a picture sitting on my bike with a leather jacket, a selfie at the gym locker room near the mirror, a picture walking at the center.

Bio:
Mostly what I do briefly then changed to no bio then changed to some humor.

No damn results, am I doing something wrong?

The only way I get results is liking all girls on tinder or badoo but there I see stuff that you humans cant even imagine..things beyond the kingdom of mankind.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Same thing here, especially on Tinder... virtually no matches. On other platforms I do a bit better but not by much.
 

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Had one banter back n' forth with me about Archery this past week. I, yesterday, tell her that I'll be at specific range Sunday at this time if she's there then she may see me. She texts back that am I trying to make her stalk me? and her dad and her are going to a different archery range tonight (Friday, yesterday, night). Then she sends another saying that she has an appointment Sunday (probably church) and what are the benefits of going to the range I go to over the one she goes to (both not very far). See, she's making it difficult and she's not all that good-looking and somewhat Fat, so I say, "$3." I'm done messaging this hoe lol

Why do women get all quirky and make you go "wait, wut?" when you simply say that you are going to be in a specific place at a specific time and to memorize your photos, so that if she's there then she'll be able to spot me at that place and that time. They see me saying that as WEAK I guess, but I don't care cause she's really no loss physically for me. Also, she contacted ME first, and that is usually how I operate. Usually when I contact one, she will simply NOT reply, it's so RUDE in my world, from my time having been born in the 70s and grew up in the 80s when women responded at Least with something.

We are totally expendable as humans now guys, us MEN. There ARE too many suitors, too many d!cks chasin eggs.
 

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That's all I have as a tinder profile and match with tons of hotties. My match profile is literally the same. Basic pics, one of a kayak, campfire, guitar. Not sure what you're doing
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CMNILS87

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Had one banter back n' forth with me about Archery this past week. I, yesterday, tell her that I'll be at specific range Sunday at this time if she's there then she may see me. She texts back that am I trying to make her stalk me? and her dad and her are going to a different archery range tonight (Friday, yesterday, night). Then she sends another saying that she has an appointment Sunday (probably church) and what are the benefits of going to the range I go to over the one she goes to (both not very far). See, she's making it difficult and she's not all that good-looking and somewhat Fat, so I say, "$3." I'm done messaging this hoe lol

Why do women get all quirky and make you go "wait, wut?" when you simply say that you are going to be in a specific place at a specific time and to memorize your photos, so that if she's there then she'll be able to spot me at that place and that time. They see me saying that as WEAK I guess, but I don't care cause she's really no loss physically for me. Also, she contacted ME first, and that is usually how I operate. Usually when I contact one, she will simply NOT reply, it's so RUDE in my world, from my time having been born in the 70s and grew up in the 80s when women responded at Least with something.

We are totally expendable as humans now guys, us MEN. There ARE too many suitors, too many d!cks chasin eggs.
What's so hard about saying. I'll be at bow and arrow archery range at 2pm, you should come hang out if you're free? Make it easy for her to reply yes or no. Not, "so what are you asking"?
 

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True, but I didn't really want to be with her - she contacted me first - but I'd fvck her temporarily, but when she starts talking about her dad whatever, then I'm like "done." She's about 10 years younger than me.
 

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That's all I have as a tinder profile and match with tons of hotties. My match profile is literally the same. Basic pics, one of a kayak, campfire, guitar. Not sure what you're doing
Thats interesting, what I believe it works is not so much you itself, but the setting, the fact that you got a decent picture in a social setting having fun.

I'll try to do the same, possibly in a fashionable place.
 

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Leave out the formal picture (one with the suit), see what happens
 
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