I don't wear good clothes because...

[Philippe Schlichting]

I found myself having all of these new clothes but for a reason not wanting to wear them when I go out to sarge.

So I wear normal clothes(functional ones like this: http://images.otto.de/asset/mmo/formatz/Schoeffel-Funktionsjacke-Blackburn-blau-7314361.jpg for instance ), approach women I find sexy who are always better dressed, tell them I want to get to know them, get rejected, go home after having repeated that a few times - weirdly happy that nothing happened, that I got no number to call or a girl in my room I had to satisfy now. When I am out I am thinking: "Well this girl wouldn't want me with those clothes as my past experiences proved so I better look for underdressed girls", which I don't find or which are ugly facewise.

Without giving me the "I don't know you"-rap*, what could be the reason for this?


*After all we are all men, so we can relate to why we do different things without having to be in each other's shoes.

 

[nroug7]

I found myself having all of these new clothes but for a reason not wanting to wear them when I go out to sarge.

So I wear normal clothes(functional ones like this: http://images.otto.de/asset/mmo/formatz/Schoeffel-Funktionsjacke-Blackburn-blau-7314361.jpg for instance ), approach women I find sexy who are always better dressed, tell them I want to get to know them, get rejected, go home after having repeated that a few times - weirdly happy that nothing happened, that I got no number to call or a girl in my room I had to satisfy now. When I am out I am thinking: "Well this girl wouldn't want me with those clothes as my past experiences proved so I better look for underdressed girls", which I don't find or which are ugly facewise.

Without giving me the "I don't know you"-rap*, what could be the reason for this?


*After all we are all men, so we can relate to why we do different things without having to be in each other's shoes.

Honestly, those functional clothes you gave as an example blend in well with each other, I think you are underselling what you wear.
Find clothes and a style that suits you, and wear it like no-one else would, know that when you wear those clothes, you are the best at wearing them.

 

[Zerro]

Clothes only complement your innate looks, a monkey in a suit is still a monkey just the same as how no amount of lipstick will make a pig look sexy. That aside it's more important to dress for your audience, wearing a suit somewhere where everyone else is in jeans and a t-shirt will get attention but it'll mostly be the "is that guy stopping here on his way to an interview or a funeral?" sort of attention.