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Lifelong celibate here (I'm 25 and first kiss was just yesterday due to previously held religious views), been studying game past 2 years, lost 40 pounds, and recently quit my job and moved to Central America to hang out with Latinas fulltime. Anyways, I'm going to Spanish school where all the teachers are 18-25 ladies, and been flirting with the cute ones. I've been at the school many weeks now, and being that most folks studying foreign languages are nerds/introverts, and my Spanish is conversational, it's been easy to assert myself as the most interesting student there and build a social circle with all the teachers. We go out several times a week generally.
Been flirting with one girl in particular for several weeks, we always make strong eye contact and tease each other, and recently we started taking private dance lessons together just her and I, which I've been using to kino.
Anyways, yesterday I host a housewarming party to celebrate my new apartment, she gets fairly drunk, I lead her up to the balcony privately to isolate her, and she grabs me and starts making out with me. (She cheeked me when I tried to kiss her on the lips a couple days ago, I laughed, and told her "next time"). The party gets broken up by the landlord, and a few of us go back to her mom's house. Eventually it's just her and me left on her couch, we're cuddling and kino is escalating when her boyfriend calls. She's on top of me so I can hear everything, he starts *****ing her out for going out with other people, not spending enough time with him, and eventually he starts crying. She finally hangs up and says he's so jealous. I looked up his FB and he's liked her last 20 posts and he put 3 different pictures of flowers on her wall of VDay...
I try to kiss her again. She stops me, says, "I can't. I have to think. This is so complicated for me. I don't want to hurt you." I would go back to caressing her and eventually lift her chin so she'd be staring at my eyes, I'd lean in and try to kiss again, and she'd stop me with the same statement. This happened 5 times, then on number 6, we finally started making out again but not as long as back at my place. When she walked me out, she also kissed me on the lips again.
While we were talking, she kept asking me why I like her. "There's so many other cute girls at the school, and they all like you (she names 3 other girls who flirt regularly with me). Why'd you choose me? You could go out with them."
Is she just lacking self-confidence? I have social circle, other girls want me, her current boyfriend is a tool. Why's she afraid of hurting me? Is she just being reluctant, or is she still planning on friend-zoning me? Normally I don't want to hurt you is code for I'm going to dump you, but that doesn't seem to compute here. Am I playing my hand too fast or too slow, or just keep plowing on?
Been flirting with one girl in particular for several weeks, we always make strong eye contact and tease each other, and recently we started taking private dance lessons together just her and I, which I've been using to kino.
Anyways, yesterday I host a housewarming party to celebrate my new apartment, she gets fairly drunk, I lead her up to the balcony privately to isolate her, and she grabs me and starts making out with me. (She cheeked me when I tried to kiss her on the lips a couple days ago, I laughed, and told her "next time"). The party gets broken up by the landlord, and a few of us go back to her mom's house. Eventually it's just her and me left on her couch, we're cuddling and kino is escalating when her boyfriend calls. She's on top of me so I can hear everything, he starts *****ing her out for going out with other people, not spending enough time with him, and eventually he starts crying. She finally hangs up and says he's so jealous. I looked up his FB and he's liked her last 20 posts and he put 3 different pictures of flowers on her wall of VDay...
I try to kiss her again. She stops me, says, "I can't. I have to think. This is so complicated for me. I don't want to hurt you." I would go back to caressing her and eventually lift her chin so she'd be staring at my eyes, I'd lean in and try to kiss again, and she'd stop me with the same statement. This happened 5 times, then on number 6, we finally started making out again but not as long as back at my place. When she walked me out, she also kissed me on the lips again.
While we were talking, she kept asking me why I like her. "There's so many other cute girls at the school, and they all like you (she names 3 other girls who flirt regularly with me). Why'd you choose me? You could go out with them."
Is she just lacking self-confidence? I have social circle, other girls want me, her current boyfriend is a tool. Why's she afraid of hurting me? Is she just being reluctant, or is she still planning on friend-zoning me? Normally I don't want to hurt you is code for I'm going to dump you, but that doesn't seem to compute here. Am I playing my hand too fast or too slow, or just keep plowing on?
