Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I dont want to be JUST friends...

AA423

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How do you tell a girl that you really dont want to be her friend, and that you either want a relationship or to just f*ck?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Desdinova

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Telling her you don't want to be "just friends" isn't going to help. If she sees you as a "friend", chances are that she will never see you as potential date or relationship material.

What you need to do is learn how to prevent women from wanting to be "just friends". Kino and ****y/Funny do a great job at this. If you don't know what those two things are, you need to read the DJ bible.

You have to communicate that you're interested in her without doing it verbally. You also have to communicate that you're a sexual being. Women pick things up better when they're communicated indirectly. Again, consult the DJ bible.
 

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A friend of mine got that line from a girl he was trying to pursue. He told her that he was looking for more, and now they're together. She probably didn't want him to lose interest all together so I guess she gave it a shot and it happened to work out. My friend isn't a DJ (as in no real game) by any means, he said he just started becoming more assertive with what he wanted and if it doesn't work out, he will simply try again.

Not related, but I got a kick out of the fact that he told me the first time they had sex he flipped her over and ate her a**hole out. I guess that was a hell of a first impression, lol. If you get that far try it out, it just might keep her around longer.:D
 

wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by AA423
I dont want to be JUST friends...
Well then quit being such a f*ckin pu$$y!

That's the only way you fall into the friends zone. If you're assertive, confident, ****y and pull out the kino then there's no way you can fall into the friends zone. You can't hold back and kiss her a$$. You have to grab the girl and make-out with her on the first date.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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n00bPimp

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There are plenty of ways to tell a girl you want to be more than friends, however none of them work. Its almost impossible to get out from the friends zone. When she doesn't see you in a sexual way, there's nothing you can do to make her change her mind. Just move on and start fresh with another girl, however this time try not to be a wimp.
 

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RE:

usually I just stick my penis in their mouth and they usually take the hint.
 

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Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
usually I just stick my penis in their mouth and they usually take the hint.
:cool:
 

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"usually I just stick my penis in their mouth and they usually take the hint."

:crackup:
 
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