"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I dont want to be JUST friends...

AA423

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How do you tell a girl that you really dont want to be her friend, and that you either want a relationship or to just f*ck?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova

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Telling her you don't want to be "just friends" isn't going to help. If she sees you as a "friend", chances are that she will never see you as potential date or relationship material.

What you need to do is learn how to prevent women from wanting to be "just friends". Kino and ****y/Funny do a great job at this. If you don't know what those two things are, you need to read the DJ bible.

You have to communicate that you're interested in her without doing it verbally. You also have to communicate that you're a sexual being. Women pick things up better when they're communicated indirectly. Again, consult the DJ bible.
 

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A friend of mine got that line from a girl he was trying to pursue. He told her that he was looking for more, and now they're together. She probably didn't want him to lose interest all together so I guess she gave it a shot and it happened to work out. My friend isn't a DJ (as in no real game) by any means, he said he just started becoming more assertive with what he wanted and if it doesn't work out, he will simply try again.

Not related, but I got a kick out of the fact that he told me the first time they had sex he flipped her over and ate her a**hole out. I guess that was a hell of a first impression, lol. If you get that far try it out, it just might keep her around longer.:D
 

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Originally posted by AA423
I dont want to be JUST friends...
Well then quit being such a f*ckin pu$$y!

That's the only way you fall into the friends zone. If you're assertive, confident, ****y and pull out the kino then there's no way you can fall into the friends zone. You can't hold back and kiss her a$$. You have to grab the girl and make-out with her on the first date.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There are plenty of ways to tell a girl you want to be more than friends, however none of them work. Its almost impossible to get out from the friends zone. When she doesn't see you in a sexual way, there's nothing you can do to make her change her mind. Just move on and start fresh with another girl, however this time try not to be a wimp.
 

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RE:

usually I just stick my penis in their mouth and they usually take the hint.
 

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Re: RE:

Originally posted by SeldomSeen
usually I just stick my penis in their mouth and they usually take the hint.
:cool:
 

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"usually I just stick my penis in their mouth and they usually take the hint."

:crackup:
 
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