"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Paradox

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Guys, can you please post your age in your user CP

We have a problem with teens who are trying to sneak-post in here. When we check ages there are alot of posters who don't have their age posted.

It also helps others see where you are when you post an issue.


1. Click on user CP
2. On the left hand of the screen click on edit profile
3. add date of birth and year of birth
4. click on save changes at the bottom of the screen


This will also insure that your post is not moved to the discussion forum or deleted. Thanks for helping us out

This is not an order. It's just a suggestion. But you can take it as an order.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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azanon

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Consider leading by example, Paradox. I dont see your age listed.
 

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I was born on December 26, 1979, at 12:17pm MST.
 

amoka

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azanon said:
Consider leading by example, Paradox. I dont see your age listed.
You just took my words. :yes: :yes: :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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amoka said:
You just took my words. :yes: :yes: :yes:
LOL only the underage posters will refuse. amoka you post in the HS forum so I suspect that you are one of the underage posters
 

grinder

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Ok, ok, this is the second time you have requested this.

So, what are we serving in this joint that’s soo good the kiddies can’t get in?

3 more years and I’ll start the AARP DJ forum.
 

PRMoon

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Not saying this is true for me (my age is my stated age) but wouldn't it be just as easy for a High School kid to fudge their age in accordance with this and continue posting? I mean I use to lie about my age when I was over the age of 12 to impress people and even more so on the internet where identity is even more of a mystery. What's going to stop the same thing from happening here?
 

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this forum section has little (if any) flamers sound advice and general experience from all the posters...Im 19, but im just giving you a reason why people gravitate towards this section

I try not to post here, but if the idea is pertinent to men over 25, does it matter who posts? There can be intellectual younger posters and there can be incessant 'mature' posters. Just moderate the board to the best of your ability without being noticed and it should stay as good as it is now or better.
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
I try not to post here, but if the idea is pertinent to men over 25, does it matter who posts? There can be intellectual younger posters and there can be incessant 'mature' posters. Just moderate the board to the best of your ability without being noticed and it should stay as good as it is now or better.
Typical post from someone under 25 tryin to justify themselves. I love someones response from a long time ago, if your not mature enough to respect the rules of the forum (over25), then your not mature enough to post in here.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Always have, always will.
 

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To hell with diplomacy! This isn't a democracy, and the site is free - posting here is a priviledge. I say ban the morons that don't have their ages listed.

What, are they trying to be "mysterious"? What's the big secret? We aren't women that are ashamed of our age around here. Or wait... maybe that's... oh nevermind.
 

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The point that they'll just put an older age on their profiles is a good one.

Who cares, anyhow? You can tell a more mature person (in personality, NOT age) usually.
 

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The other forums have already gone to sh!t. This is the only place where good advice is served at all any more.
 

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21 years old. And everybody here knows I read this forum and try to post here.

Why? Well, I learn more from the older. People my age usually does not have any experience I do not. Almost everyone here does. And sometimes I want to ask some questions to them, so they can enlight me a little more.

I used to bother Rollo Tomassi left and right with my PMs, and he was always helpful. Got out of this forums for a while (it's NICE to live guys, some people here should try it for a change!).

I do this even with my family. Squeeze people so I can extract some knowledge juice. :)

I am of the opinion people should allow questions from the younger, not about stuff per se, but of perspectives. Their experiences are priceless to the young that wants to learn. I, being a young man that do not have a father near me, testify to this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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squirrels said:
The other forums have already gone to sh!t. This is the only place where good advice is served at all any more.
A prime exactly why the rule should be enforced. If this is truly the one good forum, why do you want to reduce it and make it a lower quality so that its on the same level as everything else below it.
 

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This forum has definately deteriated over the past year or so .Why would a guy post over a thousand messages here ?You need to get a another hobby if this is the case .Use this forum for guidance ,don't live here !
 

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Fuk It!!!

I say post a pic! LOL!

If half you cats say you are who you are, then ANTI UP.

I'm for it.
 

amoka

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Krazykev said:
This forum has definately deteriated over the past year or so .Why would a guy post over a thousand messages here ?You need to get a another hobby if this is the case .Use this forum for guidance ,don't live here !
lol :rock:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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