"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I don't want a relationship..."

ice_cream

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When a girl you met tells you that relationships are bad and that they don't want a relationship, does this mean they actually don't want a relationship or that they just don't like you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lust

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ice_cream said:
When a girl you met tells you that relationships are bad and that they don't want a relationship, does this mean they actually don't want a relationship or that they just don't like you?
Women mention having boyfriends, do they really have one? Probably not.

Just take this as you have done something wrong, and need to rework your game, and keep gaming them as usual.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Be like cool I don't want a relationship either. Well glad we got that outa the way. Go for **** friend in that situation. Look at it this way you either got nothing or a possible **** friend. Your always better off doing it like that.
 

diizy

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If she doesnt want a relationship, become her friend, get her drunk, fvck her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ice_cream

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What if you got the impression that they just got out of a bad relationship or something along the lines? Should I still try to hook up with her or just let it be?
 
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