Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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i dont wanna screw this up

gsj23421

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for a little background on my situation please check out this post first: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=209038

today this super hot girl (8/10) came to our school, i was the first to approach her it went super smooth. i opened very naturally, i flirted and it went great. i dont yet know if she is going to my school but i think i have a good chance to get with her (even though she has a boyfriend but both him and her are grade younger than me, im junior shes soph.) btw im not socially awkward and im good looking but my text game sucks. (i only text to set up meets) otherwise im confident talking to girls in person. i dont have a very strong social circle game and there aren't many parties in my school as you can read in my previous post. i just don't want to screw this up cuz last time i tried getting with a girl i scrwed up big time. also please tell me the "quick way" cuz i wanna move in before someone else does. also she told me her parents took her phone up. is this a sh** test or should i wait a few days before texting her? what would be a good solid text opener? i know this sounds kind of stupid but what steps should i take to "get with her"? (mostly just a hookup but maybe date her) is it even worth trying to get with her if i dont have very strong social game? please give me some tips on building rapport? if thats the next move i should make? (advice other than just talk to her, like give some good topics that would "peak" her interest in me) texting tips? also since she has a boyfriend, how can i still "get with her" (i mean i know its possible but how can i?)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VikingKing

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I didn't even read. I read the title man. You care wayyyyyyyyyy to much and your wayyyyyyyy to desperate.

Your putting the pvssy on the pedastil. stop yourself. change your perspective.
 

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The only thing you can control is yourself. Either she bites or she doesn't. Stay cool
 

Stingers

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Your making her the prize.
Remember you are the prize to be won.
You are the MAN (atleast id hope)
She should be trying to win your attention not the other way around.

On a serious note OP she has a boyfriend, its not worth the trouble. I would skip it and move.
 

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You are over thinking this way too much. This is almost too preposterous to address...

Just relax and go with the flow. If you get all flustered she will she that you are not socially calibrated and not experienced with women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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