"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't understand ..

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First of all, could someone please explain this to me? There are two girls, let's call them A and B.

Girl A will basically have sex with me if I told her I wanted to. She is always sexual around me, telling me how good I would be in bed, and that she thinks I'm big (havn't even been with her) I think it's our joke, but I know she wants me. If I did ever get with her it would be for selfish reasons because I don't really feel much toward her. I wouldn't even care if she got off or not.

Girl B is different, she is sexually occasionally, but she's more reserved. We joke alot about sexual things, except I can't tell if she's serious or not, the thing is I like her alot. I don't even know why.

Oh, I joke around alot and I kinda got lost in the moment not really paying attention to who I was talking to .. I was like "Get out of my seat f*cking b*tch I'll kill you lol" with a smile on my face .. it was a joke but apparently she didn't take it as one. Now she's "not talking" to me .. so?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chubbycheeks720 said:
whats your problem exactly?
Both of the girls aren't that hot, but I don't understand why I'm so infactuated with one, and couldn't care less about the other.

And

What do I do to counter silent treatment?
 
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