I dont understand my situation -help

[elguato]

Hi, this is my first post, just heard of this site from a buddy.

Anyways, here is my story...

I am 5'6, 17 years old, built with muscles, into sports, all the ****... my family has money, i drive a very nice sports car for my age (brand new trans am)...

i am shy, scared 2 go up to girls......

i am mainly attracted to intelligent girls, who have their goals defined and are close to their families, and have nice values, and class.

im visitin my buddy in an other province.... and in the past few weeks ive been hangin out wit my buddy's friends and they are buncha cool guys, but they are from the burbs.. and they are not well-off, most of them actually live a simple life, and dont have much material things, or money.. so they cant go out to do the real fun stuff that costs money..

we usually chill at someone's house, goto da beach, and they always pick up chicks

these chicks they pick up are so weird IMO, they are the typical dumb slutz who u get with....

i wanna get wit these *****es, but i never know what to say... i was brought up with style and class, so i cannot treat the girls like crap... im a typical nice guy and i know u have to ba a jerk to these girls to get somewhere with them, else they just think u are weird

how can i be a jerk in a nice way?? how can i be cool, laid back, and make myself wanted by these girls?? im still a guy and want some play like the boyz get, its just hard for me to be like the guys, i am not used to it.. help and advice please

 

[elguato]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Improve your confidance. Take a public speaking coarse. (not through school)

Public speaking course eh? Well if not through school, then where?

 

[Julian]

Grow some balls man. If you got the total package then use it to your advantage. Think of all the nerds out there man. DO IT FOR THE NERDS!

 

[oakraiderz2]

Why do n00bs feel the need to tell us about themselves and what they want in girls?? I couldnt give a flying fuk so people just need to chill. Dont talk just read...if you need something IM me.

 

[elguato]

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Why do n00bs feel the need to tell us about themselves and what they want in girls?? I couldnt give a flying fuk so people just need to chill. Dont talk just read...if you need something IM me.

yo buddy you are not too much of senior member, you only have 17 posts.. so shut your mouth, please

and the reason why i tell people who i am is because it is proper etiquette to introduce yourself where I come from.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Originally posted by elguato
yo buddy you are not too much of senior member, you only have 17 posts.. so shut your mouth, please

and the reason why i tell people who i am is because it is proper etiquette to introduce yourself where I come from.

He's 17 years old, he has a few thousand posts....

don't get smart, it'll take years to learn what he knows

 

[elguato]

Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
He's 17 years old, he has a few thousand posts....

don't get smart, it'll take years to learn what he knows

oh yah, whoops he has 1300+ posts heh, i read the age.. my bad

 

[dbot]

Nah posts don't mean ****. oakraiderz definately knows what he's talking about, but there are plenty of people on these boards that have a ton of posts simply because they have to respond to every single topic regardless of how stupid they may sound. There are also people (like me) who have been here for years but never registered. Don't judge people's knowledge by how many posts they have, and always consider everyone's advice. You'll know if someone gives you faulty information.

In response to your post... You don't have to be a jerk to get girls. In fact, the jerk is the opposite of the nice guy. Nice guys kiss ass and let the women walk all over them, jerks get the chicks but can't keep them, cause they're such *******s. No one is saying you have to treat women like ****, just don't let them push you around. Also, be sure you read through the bible.

 

[PiHiPlaya]

^^ Indeed Dbot

May I add that pook only has 300 some posts.
I was not implying that oakraiderz was right because he has 1300+ posts, but because he knows his ****.

By the way, while we are on the topic of Jerks and Pook.... read "Secrets of the Jerk" by Pook.

 

[mystik]

oaklandR hasnt posted much but he's been around for awhile and helped me out with some personal problems through AIM, so stfu elo