"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I don't understand, how EMOs get women?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Deadly_Assassin
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Bloke
Senior Don Juan
The only time I go outside is when it's raining... or I need milk
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
today.
Being a Don Juan works on the principles of being a real man-
positive mindset
goals
reliability
stability
independence
confidence
and all the good things that make you a solid person
it seems to me anyways...
it takes more effort to be a DJ , everyone wants the results
but not everyone is willing to do the work to get the results.
EMOs may not be the most confident or the most anything..
but they are themselves to a fault and make no excuses
for any of it, and that makes them attractive.
actually, ANYONE who is themselves and makes no
excuses for it -is ememsely attractive.
being comfortable in their own skin, knows what they
like and dosen't need anyone to tell them what to do
or how to feel or act.
sexualchocolate
Don Juan
some of those chicks are hot is what gets me.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
rememeber who he was married to before?
rose Mcgowen...
i have a sense the EMO's might be a little more
emotionally connected with girls that most people
think or are aware of...
i have actually seen how an EMO picked up a girl
without even saying anything to her.
there was this guy ,typicly alpha and he was gaming
on a girl. The Emo guy walks by and gets her
attention with mere eye contact & a evil swagger as
he walked by her...
she basicly lit up and
it was as if anything the dude she was talking to,
she could'nt even hear him.Her attention was totally
shifted. this caught my interest..
so i carefully at a distance watched what unfolded.
after she talked to the alpha guy, she went over to
the Emo/goth guy and she approaced HIM!
he was laid back, didn't really show any response and
was cool as a cucummber.
i could'nt hear what was being said but from what it
looked like, he had ALL the power and he barely even
said a word.They left together.
everywomanshero
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Yea, I know that guy. It's her retarded brother and his layless friend. She took him home, got all *****'d home, and went over to the alpha guy's house.
Pay attention to the detals !
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
strong like bull
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sounds like something a dj would do.
-SLB
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
Hello JC back so soon?
superchristx
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But I COULD dye my hair black, part it sloppily over my eye while sticking it up in the back, and get some black frame glasses. Then maybe I get a black t-shirt a size too small, studded belt, highwater jeans. Suddenly I look pretty emo, would you throw tomatoes at me when I walked down the street?
I could also put on a clown suit, or a rockclimber's gear, or a fireman's uniform. All I'm saying it, next time you see a policeman walking down the street, look twice!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
exactly. Emo guys get emo girls.
The same way prep guys get prep girls.
Ghetto guys get ghetto girls
The focus of don juan is to be manly. Putting all those categories aside, virtually all girls want men deep inside. So don't think u have to be emo to get chicks. You're better off just being masculine.
everywomanshero
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Manly men get manly girls?
Hunterchilla
Don Juan
So the POLAR opposites is what gets the girls.
The Emo guys attract the girls who LOVE the sensitive type of stuff, and the ALPHA's attract the girls who dont fall for it.
the middle guys, are kinda half ass on both sides, so they dont get nothing!
Hunterchilla
Don Juan
I also agree with what this guy said.
im mainly attracted to ghetto dominican/puerto rican girls, and they dont normally date preppy white guys, but so far my masculinity and alphaness has been the key. They all just want a good looking, MAN deep inside.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
). These are the only requirements."The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.