I don't understand "frames"

[Bonez]

I mean, can you adopt a frame in the classroom?

Is it any good when you're driving? riding in a bus or taxi cab? jogging?

I don't see any frames that wouldn't sound stupid in the gym. their all egotistic

I don't think I even understand basic framing i searched but couldn't find anything REALLY good. ummm, anybody can help me?

 

[Jay Jay]

Frames.

This hard one becasue a frame is generally communicated on a non verbal and intuitive level.

I'll have a crack at it but its something you will have to see in the real world with your own eyes to truly get it.

There is an underlying meaning and/or purpose that is understood on an intuitive of any interactions or situation. This is the frame.

Its not so much about what people are doing but WHY they are doing it.

Can you adopt a frame in a class room?

There is always a frame!

So if you are in the class room have a look around and think about every person and where they are on a deeper level. Why are they there?

Everyone has their own frame. The geek is the there to top the class and get good marks, the pretty girl just wants to look good, your mate is just there because he has to be, the class clown wants to get a laugh.

NOW

Whoever has the STRONGEST FRAME will profoundly influence every other frame in this class room. They will control the frame.

Just say the teacher has the strongest frame. His frame is that he is a kick arse teacher, his students always gets top marks and no kid f*cks with him. With that frame his classes will be well behaved, everyone will be studying hard, no one will be acting up.

But lets say the Class Clown has the strongest frame and his frame says "I'm a funny little **** and we are going to have fun!" Now the attmsophere in the class room will be a fun and playful.

Generally people don't control their frame but once you learn to it will change your life.

So you can adopt a frame in any situation.

GYM/ JOGGING FRAME: I'm here to train hard to be the best person I can possibly be.
BUS FRAME: I'm the sexiest man on this bus.
TAXI FRAME: I know where I'm going and I'm not the kind of person you want to **** with so you better take the most direct route MR Taxi Driver.

But for people to pick up on this you need to really FEEL IT.

So with girls, you want to control the frame so that it is NOT about you picking her up but as either you are qualifying her or she is trying to pick you up.

Dudes often use negs and C&F and stuff to knock hot girls out of their frame which screams "I'm a hot chick and every guy wants me."

But if you have a strong enough frame then you don't need the negs and games.

Anyway, thats the best I can do at this time in the morning.

Hope that helps.

JJ

 

[Interceptor]

Good reply, JJ.
This is really tied into your control of congruency and confidence.
Eye contact, and body language reinforce this. People subconsciously pick up on your commanding signals. They won't mess with you becasue of your verbal and physical command of the situation.
It is key to develop your "inner" game, and believe it or not, let your insecurity go and believe that YES, you are worth it. And YES, you can influence your surroundings and people.
You can transmit yourself, your aura, and what you want and people that are in tune with you will comply.
Again, body and mental confidence.
You must know who you are, and you must believe that you are worth it.
And you must trust that everyone respects someone who is a leader, in control, take charge, in command, but not an arrogant, obnoxious a*****e.
Find your inner power, and don't be afraid to use it for something positive, man.

Ultimately, meeting and attracting women, and maintaining a healthy and sexual relationship boils down to how well you Social Skills are developed.
You need to be able to talk to ANYONE, and not be afraid.

Shyness,timidity, and insecurity are reinforced. They are NOT natural.
Being confident, in control, social, and aware of your surroundings can also be reinforced, and are positive and much more natural skills we have.
NO WOMAN will go out of their way to find out that deeper part of you, if YOU DO NOT GET OUT THERE AND SHARE WHO YOU ARE.
They won't come knocking on your door and pull you away from your Xbox , dude.

 

[L777]

Frame is just mindset man. If you can get this conquered your 75% of the way to becoming a DJ. Rather than having specific frames to conciously 'adopt' at a given time, I just have the frame of "I am the s.hit" all the time. Not in arrogant way, but just in a self assured way. It guarantees that no one, man or woman will ever get the better of you, and of course it means you are unfazed by rejection (whch won't happen outright anyway) and also success.

Think James Bond...does he ever get flustered, stressed, tooled, over-excited or oneitis over a girl? No. Yes, he's a fictional character, but the example is a good one I think.

However, if you don't have a sexy British accent like me you can never be as cool as James Bond.

Seriously though. Get rid of any insecurities you may have, get your mindset right....and the world is yours.