i don't think it really works...

[Crazy Asian]

alright so i've read alot about what this site is about and i understand it, but i don't really think it applies in realy life. so say you meet this girl, and you start talking to her, and have fun together, then you draw away to attract her i guess... but if your not hot or popular, she'll forget you the instant YOU stop talking to her because she's got so many other people around her.

so can anyone explain to me wut i'm missing here?

 

[banGbro]

Youre a BAFC. :kick:


While an AFC might have been tamponed by women at least once, you still have to get to that point. After you done with guys, lol.

 

[asdfghjkl]

but if your not hot or popular, she'll forget you the instant YOU stop talking to her because she's got so many other people around her.

True, if you don't leave a good impression she will just forget about you the second you step away, dismissing you as some AFC. But if you create enough attraction in her she will want to see you again, and she will come looking for you. Now being hot or popular can definitely help your game, but getting her to be truly attracted to you requires good conversation.

Keep reading and start going out there and practicing, the only way to find out what works for you is to experience it yourself.

 

[Mjazz]

First you need to forget about girls and apply this stuff to everyday life and other interests and pursuits, once you get that down, the frame and crap will come naturally and the girls will come easy. Stop with the negative attitude, thats not going to get you anywhere, havent you learned anything from this site?

 

[Kev07]

theres more to life than just push/pulling every single situation you see.

and this doesn't mean say hi to a girl, then completely forget about her for a week then out of nowhere say hi again.

do it on much smaller levels like when you're hanging out, turn your back to her every now and then, don't give her all of your attention

 

[aussiegoat55]

At first for me it was understanding women, learning how to flirt, what to do when a girl gives you signals, etc, but it became so much more than that for me, I decided to put all the tips on getting girls aside and focused on becoming a real man, self improvement, instead of remaining who I was but using some tricks. Now the girls in high school may not recognize real men, but college girls will definitley.

Start with a few tips like making eye contact, make it a habit, then move on to something else like slowing down your speech, make it a habit, learn something new, repeat and repeat, self improvement takes time.

 

[Kev07]

yes that's the problem with high school, the girls ({no they are not women) in high school don't understand what a real man is.

immature little girls they are.

 

[banGbro]

Ok kidd, here is what you do. www.amazon.com


Find and read Julius Fast - Body Language. This is a language you yet have to learn, I bet you not even aware of it. People use it all the time, especially the women.


Gut Impact by J.D. Fuentes. This talks about how to communicate, and different types of communication. Ever thought why they dont take your little asian a55 seriously? This explains and teaches you how to communicate properly.


Once you are done with those, get something serious, The Sexual Key by J.D. Fuentes.


Work presented in DJ Bible, and material by David DeAngelo, Mystery, etc.. These works are advanced and customized idea of female psychology.



Saying I dont think this works, is like saying I dont think karate works. It is rediculous.

 

[nicenomore]

alright so i've read alot about what this site is about and i understand it, but i don't really think it applies in realy life. so say you meet this girl, and you start talking to her, and have fun together, then you draw away to attract her i guess... but if your not hot or popular, she'll forget you the instant YOU stop talking to her because she's got so many other people around her.

so can anyone explain to me wut i'm missing here?

A lot actually.....

Read the Bible ,I mean the DJ bible....

You dont draw away to attract her, you attract her and then draw away to increase the attraction. I hope that solves the query .

How ever if she senses your act of pulling away is a fake , she'll probably dump you.
Give it once to the girls , they arent dumb for heavens sake.

 

[Snow Plowman]

alright so i've read alot about what this site is about and i understand it, but i don't really think it applies in realy life. so say you meet this girl, and you start talking to her, and have fun together, then you draw away to attract her i guess... but if your not hot or popular, she'll forget you the instant YOU stop talking to her because she's got so many other people around her.

so can anyone explain to me wut i'm missing here?

If you're having fun together and she forgets about you then most likely you were being a dancing monkey. When you go in and actually attracting and vibing. The stuff is so different and the way its done makes you so different from somebody else. You actually standout from everyone else and that is how you're remembered.

I am 100% sure about this because there is a hb9 that I briefly opened, and hooked, did some roleplaying, qualified her a bit, had her dancing on the side walk, etc. Maybe altogether we talked for 5 minutes. Now when I seen this girl few months back, she says hi, gives me hugs. (She even wanted to take pics of me to show her friends)

Its all about standing out that makes them not forget, but also know that she may forget if you just jumpped in and jumpped out of the set. That is why I love making sure I have some callback humor.

 

[Infraction]

Thats the whole point, be special.
Do don't stupid mistakes like other dudes and she won't forget you.

 

[nicenomore]

Thats the whole point, be special.
Do don't stupid mistakes like other dudes and she won't forget you.

poof..thats literally the conclusion of this thread.....