"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't think I'll ever be this kind of guy...

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but some guys can get a woman's clothes off and pound her like there's no tomorrow VERY shortly after meeting her. Let's say a chick goes on vacation and meets a guy on the beach and they're fuc*ing in the hotel room an hour later.

Are these guys buff and/or rich?

Does a normal confident guy have a chance at getting a woman so horny that they'll **** without the BS of dating, etc?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it depends on what you consider a very short time: if you are on vacation at a hotel for a week and you kick it with her a lot by the pool and party together a few days then bone...thats completely reasonable; people go on vacation with the mentality of letting loose.

but i think a lot of the times guys bone a girl within 1-2 hours of meeting them, the girl is probably pretty slutty. i feel kinda nervous now after realizing this fact because i did exactly this on saturday with no condom (and i am a broke ass college kid that isnt the swollest guy). BUT that is not to say some guy doesnt have a ton of game and can do it to anyone im just saying in general they are probably a slooter

BTW, i thought you "just dont give a fúck" anymore?
 

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well you obviously DO because you went from posting the badáss message to the self-doubting "i dont know if i can do this"
 

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thewarrior said:
but some guys can get a woman's clothes off and pound her like there's no tomorrow VERY shortly after meeting her. Let's say a chick goes on vacation and meets a guy on the beach and they're fuc*ing in the hotel room an hour later.

Are these guys buff and/or rich?

Does a normal confident guy have a chance at getting a woman so horny that they'll **** without the BS of dating, etc?
A lot of it depends on the woman like pua1989 mentioned. Women that we consider "normal" don't usually fvck a guy within a few hours of meeting them unless they're slutty.

Of course I think a majority of women would fvck celebrities without question within a few hours. But for normal everyday guys like us, it's not likely to happen unless you're dealing with an easy target.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GuanYu said:
Of course I think a majority of women would fvck celebrities without question within a few hours. But for normal everyday guys like us, it's not likely to happen unless you're dealing with an easy target.
Which means the real key is identifying the easy targets -- not always the easiest task in the world.

For me, it always works the opposite way I want it to -- I meet the relationship girls when I'm just looking for a quick bit of strange, and I meet the loose women when I'm either or in or beginning a relationship.
 

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thewarrior said:
but some guys can get a woman's clothes off and pound her like there's no tomorrow VERY shortly after meeting her. Let's say a chick goes on vacation and meets a guy on the beach and they're fuc*ing in the hotel room an hour later.

Are these guys buff and/or rich?

Does a normal confident guy have a chance at getting a woman so horny that they'll **** without the BS of dating, etc?
Being confident is not normal because most guys are cowards. Usually when you see that guy that ends up banging a hot chick he just met on the beach, what you see is the END PRODUCT. You have to realise that there was a process there. That same guy had to do something in his life to be like that, he just didn't fall from the sky to have those killer instincts. He probably lifted weights seriously for a few years, he probably went partying most of his life and is used to being social/funny and he probably approaches many women in his daily life and rejection no longer phases him. Sure he may also have great genetic looks or is rich but if that's the only thing that is stopping you from being successful with the ladies, well now you are making excuses. Nobody said it was going to be easy.

GuanYu said:
A lot of it depends on the woman like pua1989 mentioned. Women that we consider "normal" don't usually fvck a guy within a few hours of meeting them unless they're slutty.
Slutty?! or maybe the guy she met really knew what he is doing and he was at the right place at the right time?! The same sweet and 'conservative' girl you knew back home can easily turn into a wild tramp under the right conditions when she is on vacaction. Western women moral code flies out the window when they consciously decide to go wild. Always remember that it takes two to tango and a woman can have both a short term and a long term selection process when she chooses to mate with a man.
 

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I've had a girl in a club, come up to me, put her ass right as my hand while I was standing at the bar, and push her cheeks over my fingers for me to feel her not wearing panties. A complete early 20s-ish college tanned blonde but a little short, a little thick, chick.

When a chick does something like that, heck yeah, I wanta just rip her clothes off right then and there and bang her in front of everybody. But then I start thinking, I'd probably get some kind of disease from this girl if I fvcked her later on.
 

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GuanYu said:
Of course I think a majority of women would fvck celebrities without question within a few hours..
I live about 20 minutes from the amusement park where the movie "Adventureland" was filmed. I applied to be an extra in the movie, it ended up just being a dam volunteer thing and I didn't get any money, but I made it onscreen for a good 5 seconds, does this count? lol
 

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thewarrior said:
but some guys can get a woman's clothes off and pound her like there's no tomorrow VERY shortly after meeting her. Let's say a chick goes on vacation and meets a guy on the beach and they're fuc*ing in the hotel room an hour later.

Are these guys buff and/or rich?

Does a normal confident guy have a chance at getting a woman so horny that they'll **** without the BS of dating, etc?
women need sexual stimulation like men

this can be either in mental or physical

you can either turn her on by looking very hot and sexual or you can turn her on by appealing to her brain and speaking to her very sensually.. lots of innuendos and pushing her mind in the direction of thinking about sex.

the fastest way to do that is to get her to shut off her inhibitions & fears and the rest is smooth sailing

if you are physically appealing to her and take the conversation on a sexual twist, you can pound her on the beach 30 minutes after meeting her..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Actually, chicks on vacation are VERY easy to bang and that's especially if they are going to a place with a lot of beaches/partying. When girls are on vacation, they're looking for a good time and they're feeling adventurous. Also, they are far away from home so no one is going to find out about any behavior that might be considered slvtty.

Some of them are aggressive enough to approach but most are a little shy. You'll find that if you make a small effort, these chicks will drop their panties pretty easily.
 

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GuanYu said:
A lot of it depends on the woman like pua1989 mentioned. Women that we consider "normal" don't usually fvck a guy within a few hours of meeting them unless they're slutty.
I'm afraid that is not true. All females are sluts...just maybe not your slut at the particular moment in time when you are looking at them. Every girl I am banging right now has a BF who thinks she is poised, proper and an all around "quality" girl... yeah right. She sure looks like an angelic vision of purity, but don't kid yourself.

I consider "normal" girls to be the ones who go out to a place to meet guys, choose the one they want and get nailed within hours of knowing him. But, I may have a skewed opinion.
 

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Duffdog said:
I'm afraid that is not true. All females are sluts...just maybe not your slut at the particular moment in time when you are looking at them. Every girl I am banging right now has a BF who thinks she is poised, proper and an all around "quality" girl... yeah right. She sure looks like an angelic vision of purity, but don't kid yourself.

I consider "normal" girls to be the ones who go out to a place to meet guys, choose the one they want and get nailed within hours of knowing him. But, I may have a skewed opinion.
Girls you're probably used to are the way you described meaning they aren't high value. You thinking all women are this way sounds like some sort of device you use to justify not being involved with higher value women. That's like thinking all men are into dirty sanchez or anal. It may be your preference and what you're accustom to, doesn't mean the whole world is like that.

Also I don't care what you say, any chick that bangs a dude within a few hours of just meeting them is a slvt. Doesn't make them normal, I could say a chick in an exclusive relationship who is solely dedicated on increasing her value in life is normal. Are all women like this? No. Has every woman in this world been some dudes *** dispenser at least once in their life? Doubtful. Thinking otherwise is ridiculous and probably comes from having a few bad experiences with women. But if it's a tool for you to view any woman like a slvt that can be sexed up do your thing brother. Keep banging.

But sh*t, I'd prefer to deal with the slvts myself just like you. However, I don't view every woman I look at as a slvt. I'm a realist and usually make assumptions after getting to know them a bit. Unless their appearances give away the impression they're easy then it's ok to judge :)
 

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GuanYu said:
Girls you're probably used to are the way you described meaning they aren't high value. You thinking all women are this way sounds like some sort of device you use to justify not being involved with higher value women. That's like thinking all men are into dirty sanchez or anal. It may be your preference and what you're accustom to, doesn't mean the whole world is like that.

Also I don't care what you say, any chick that bangs a dude within a few hours of just meeting them is a slvt. Doesn't make them normal, I could say a chick in an exclusive relationship who is solely dedicated on increasing her value in life is normal. Are all women like this? No. Has every woman in this world been some dudes *** dispenser at least once in their life? Doubtful. Thinking otherwise is ridiculous and probably comes from having a few bad experiences with women. But if it's a tool for you to view any woman like a slvt that can be sexed up do your thing brother. Keep banging.

But sh*t, I'd prefer to deal with the slvts myself just like you. However, I don't view every woman I look at as a slvt. I'm a realist and usually make assumptions after getting to know them a bit. Unless their appearances give away the impression they're easy then it's ok to judge :)

I would like to know how you define a "high value woman." My problem is that I used to think that the very refined and well-heeled women were different and not slutty just like you do now. To my surprise, they turned out to be even more of a slvt behind closed doors!
 

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I'm siding with Duff Dog on this one.

Most women I know give it up pretty easy.
So either I'm living in Slutville, USA-population: Rising, or you aren't seeing the bigger picture.

I like what Duff Dog said, and that was that "All females are sluts -- just maybe not your slut at that particular moment in time."

The truth is that western civilization isn't natural but that instinct is. Just watch animal behavior some time. My friend used to have like 20 cats at his moms house. I know it sounds ****ing weird but it was a learning experience. Anyway, there was this one Siamese cat that was to me anyway, more aesthetically pleasing than the other females. (I don't know what cats look for in a mate, but I think Siamese cats look cool). Anyway, all of the man-cats wanted to bang her. They tried mounting her all day long but she would just hiss and fight them off.

So she was not a slut-cat, right?

Wrong. This cat would reject most suitors from the poon, but there were two or three tom-cats that she would never turn down. They got the tang when they wanted it. One of the cats she is giving it up to got it out of her on the first day. Besides that, the cat would get banged in the middle of the living room like atleast 8 times a day by like 3 different cats.

I know I know, thats CATS not PEOPLE. But the driving point here is instinct.

If you took 600 people, and threw them on an island within three or four generations (or about 100 years), they would be having savage and promiscuous sex all the time.

Thats because the western mentality that you equate to the difference between a "normal" girl and a "slutty" girl would fade away.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Absolutely,

Pick up is a skill that can be learned, some guys have it built in from the get-go but it is something you can learn definitely. It's like learning to be a sales-man, you'd be surprised how many parallels there are between pick up and sales.

Anyone can learn pick up, of course it comes easier to certain people, all you're doing is essentially learning social dynamics, that's all.

When I first heard of these 1 hr F-closes I was taken away, but being around these Guru's a lot, I see it happen all the time. I was with asian playboy in Sydney, Australia, he had a bathroom F-close within 15 minutes. A gentlemen never tells but you'd be surprised what you can get away with by being dominant and confident.

If you really want to learn to be able to do this, it takes time, effort, and resources.

Shoot me a PM and I can point you in the right direction.
 
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