I Dont Think Anybody Will Understand This, But Here Goes

[DonJuanForever]

Okay, so after work today I did some thinking on my current romance/women situation.....okay,

Now, I don't think that anybody on this site will have a clue in hell of what I am about to say, but it's been something that I have not understand for a long time.

There is this, connection that I have with every single girl I come in contact with, it's as if, I can feel her soul or I can feel right through her or something. And this connection basically makes me and the girl connect on a romantic level. I notice that based on that connection, I begin to act differently or more of my usual self. There are some girls where I will begin acting more masculine or tough around, then there are those I will begin to act more upbeat and live around(I like those more because live and upbeat is more of myself), it varys but I notice, that I have found a strange connection that literally connects me with any girl....and its like, I begin to naturally act as a guy that the girl wants.

I do not understand this at all, and quite frankly, I am not sure if anybody else will understand this either. I am not trolling, but I am just trying to find out does anybody have this? I mean, to each girl there is a certain guy, and its like I naturally become him when I connect with a girl. I do not understand this at all, I just wanted to see does anybody know what this is so I can understand this shyt.

 

[flippinfreak]

It's called being able to read people

It's a great gift that obsession robs from people.

Why are you on this site if you have the quality, if I may ask?

 

[DonJuanForever]

alright, so flippinfreak you understand what I am talking about....
I came here because I had a problem understanding why women would not be more praiseworthy, etc...plus, to be honest, I have been reading around here a while and while being in the field, I kind of developed this.
But here's my question, I don't really understand this. Because its like I am acting as a totally different person at times, and I kind of want to combine them all into one big persona of myself, so that I relate to every girl. Flippin freak, if you are familiar with what I am saying, give me some information so that I can understand this better. Peace

 

[DonJuanForever]

What I find, is that I am more comfortable in the upbeat and live persona because I am like this everyday for work! The tough guy thing is really impressive to me because I feel like this ultra tough motafvcker and I really feel connected with the fighter inside of me that I have not really been living in at all. lol, like I said, this sounds really crazy but I swear I am not trolling or bullshyting around. I want to understand this more because at times, while I dont show it, I feel akward(spelling) as hell, especially when I go into the masculine/tough guy persona because I am not used to being that way. Plus, when I am liek this with a girl....I dont know, let me see what information you guys have to say on this, I will be back a little later. Peace

 

[flippinfreak]

I'm stuck at this stage. Being able to connect with different people, for different reasons. Emotions, and affectual motivating factors are what you see.

Want to work on it? Just keep approaching, and aim to feel more emotions.

There's a mechanism in our minds that allows us to relate to other peoples emotions, and to copy them. An angry person feels connected to a person who is equally angry, and desires a person who exhibits traits that they want to gather. For example, two girls are fighting, and you try to use your skill on them. First you listen(part one of the skill) to their argument, then you step up to them to introduce yourself as angry at the argument(ability to appease), and you give them an ultimatum to stop by telling the lesser girl to back off(alpha controlling chaos quality), and confirm her argument against the other girl(calmly able to be compassionmate) and turn to the alpha girl to say "she won"(isolation).

If you understand so far, what would you do next?

 

[Billy_Badass]

Thats kinda what happens to me sometimes. Some girls I am polite to, other girls, I treat a little rough, and kinda adopt more of a badass persona. I am not sure if its fake or not though. Does this make me some kind of tryhard? Some girls wouldn't react too well if I jokingly told them to get their ass over and sit with me! Some girls wouldn't even pay attention to me if I was mr. polite but funny guy, as they like the ****y bastard!

I think about all this, and I am not sure I like it. Something to think about.