"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dont talk to boring gals

Jizz

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So theres this gal who didnt wanna come out to a party tonight

i told her she was boring and she started making other excuses why she couldnt come out even tho she wanted to!

when i see her round college, im thinking about everytime she says hi or wateva im just gonna say "i dont talk to boring girls" and have a cheeky smile on

do you think i should do this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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maybe she wante to have sex with you at home instead of party?
not going to party isnt equalt with boring anyways. i think you are overreacting
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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No thats too ass-holish. This whole forum fails at that like 99% of the time. You can say it once, and thats it. Be real carefull. You only need to be bust on the girls that are used to getting things there way, and got everything going on. If shes new at school or new in town you dont need to bust on her everytime you see her. I've lost 2 chicks at school by doing very similar things that you did.
 

nectarine

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So she didn't want to come to a party. Big deal. What were you at the party to do? Score. I'll bet you could have gone round to this girls and scored bigtime, sober too.
 
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