"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't love her

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Hi,

I met a girl at a party and we danced and kissed. She asked me if I only want a 1 night or a relation but I didnt answered. A dj decide this only after sex. After that we started to see each other like once a week, going to movies kissing like crazy. After a month I realized that I have no feelings for her. I like her body but I hate her inside... I feel like I am losing my time, worst I am looking at other girls when I go out with her..;)Maybe because she is 8 years older than me...she’s cute but I hate her really bad character and her best girl friend. But,she doesn’t feel the same way, she likes me to much..She always call me every single day, I never call her . I am getting scared because she wants me to meet her parents :down: . I don't know what I should do.

1-Tell her that she is older than me and that It cant work...

2-Tell her that I don’t love her :eek:

3- I like you but we should stay friends

4-Close my phone and never see her again.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Man up and be honest. If she's a cool person, then keep her as a friend. Can't have too many of those.
 
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just tell her the truth so she will stop falling for you.
 
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I usually choose number 4 its the easiest and no mess involved unless you see her by chance again then your either screwed or make up something like you say your phone was stolen. You can't rely on others advise you have to make your own path though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no kevin, listen, I have experience with older women, they are usually desperate and want a man badly.


Just show her some interest and keep showing it to her, if she wants you to meet her parents, do it, who cares. But this is it, this woman will BUY YOU SHYT....TRUST ME. She will take care of you buddy, and it doesnt even have to be a real love relationship, just spend some time with her, thats all. Trust me dude, dont listen to the rest of your replies so far, trust me, I know from experience.
 
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Mr. Cardio your a total *** thats not even advise your giving. Why would you use a human being like that. Thats not even low thats just dispicable. People who do that don't even have the slightest bit of a sole...
 
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Originally posted by ougoalie
Mr. Cardio your a total *** thats not even advise your giving. Why would you use a human being like that. Thats not even low thats just dispicable. People who do that don't even have the slightest bit of a sole...
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Isn't that the problem of human being in question? I mean - some people want to be exploited. Other want to be degraded, I mean, really, really degraded :woo:
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
no kevin, listen, I have experience with older women, they are usually desperate and want a man badly.

Just show her some interest and keep showing it to her, if she wants you to meet her parents, do it, who cares. But this is it, this woman will BUY YOU SHYT....TRUST ME. She will take care of you buddy, and it doesnt even have to be a real love relationship, just spend some time with her, thats all. Trust me dude, dont listen to the rest of your replies so far, trust me, I know from experience.
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Kick her in the stomach and stomp on her head while you are at it as well. Dont forgett to spit on her carcass as you leave.
 
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Have you never dumped anyone before? Jut say you like her but don't want a relationship right now. The phrase 'it's not you, it's me' can be used, though of course the opposite is usually true.

If the sex is good, LJBFB her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by ougoalie
Mr. Cardio your a total *** thats not even advise your giving. Why would you use a human being like that. Thats not even low thats just dispicable. People who do that don't even have the slightest bit of a sole...
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Yeah nevermind the fact its been "natural" for the man to provide for a woman who may not have 100% interest in him and still to this day is even expected in some form or another even with todays "independant" woman, but should a guy turn the tables all hell breaks loose and hes the devil incarnate, what a joke.

I should hope if your ever approached by a chick to buy her a drink you would reply with the same amount of hate you have here by calling her despicable and soulless....pfff yeah right you would :rolleyes:

Even for a society brainwashed toolbag youve got some real nerve preaching that AFC sh!t here.
 
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yes

Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
no kevin, listen, I have experience with older women, they are usually desperate and want a man badly.


Just show her some interest and keep showing it to her, if she wants you to meet her parents, do it, who cares. But this is it, this woman will BUY YOU SHYT....TRUST ME. She will take care of you buddy, and it doesnt even have to be a real love relationship, just spend some time with her, thats all. Trust me dude, dont listen to the rest of your replies so far, trust me, I know from experience.
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Your are right. She always pay my movie ticket and my beer..;)
 
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