"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont like the term "cold approaching"...but

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I have been approaching constantly. In gym clothes, ugly clothes, not shaven, just woken up after almost no sleep.

the thing im thankful about is that I have been screening chicks naturally. Almost automatically. And it makes my approaches easier.

say a girl looks at me once. No big deal...but looks at me again...game on...looks at me a third time and I automatically smile.

smiling when ur out is a big deal to girls. Interestingly enough, the "*****es", stuck up, attention *****s who we all know and love, are older...between 23 and 27...my guess.

the cool chicks who are down to take a walk with me for 5 minutes to buy some smokes are the younger ones. Which is fine because I don't want to get all serious within a month of meeting the chick. I'm just out enjoying my life. And so are the younglings. Maybe its because life or whatever...but who's to judge.

my point is...i just approached constantly...with very little ego and I've been enjoying life with tight bodies...but more importantly, I learned how to screen naturally.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And I've screened older chicks who are down to be sexy with me. But I like to keep them simmering...so its not just the young inexperienced hotties.

and young sexy girls are more experienced than we think. I found out.
 

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The ones over 25 are often burnt out corporate hacks, 20-24 is the best age of course. Good work I've been approaching too and you get pretty good at screening as time goes on.
 
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