"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Livinlifehard

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I am a thiner build (not scrawny) but i have been trying to gain muscel. anyways i train in MMA about 2-3 times a week, and go work out about 3 times. my trainer set me up on some scheduel but i dont think it is what i want.

10 min cardio for warm up
3 sets of 10-12

I like the muscel groups i have for each day, i just dont like how many sets i am doing or reps. I think its to many and just for getting cut... would it be wise to go more of a 2 sets of 8?

I take protine, creatine, and vitamins... i am getting fish oil here soon though. anyways what do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I had a personal martial arts fitness trainer for a while. He reckons one day a week do big weights. He called his routine, "push, pull, legs". eg. push(bench/shoulder press) pull(rows/chins) legs(squats/deadlifts). Train extremal intense. Like you're Goku. reps for squats should vary from 5-20. the rest should be around 5-8.

the other day do whatever in big reps for endurance. dips, tris, calfs, biceps
 

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well sometimes i go to the gym and my friend is training for naga and he does 1 set of 50, 1 set of 40 then 30 then 20.... but i am not doing it for MMA (i just do that for fun). I just want to get big, so what would be a body builders workout? and if i wana gain fast how much should i go in a week? i hear people going 2 times a day.... but does that really increase your muscels because your not resting?
 

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do you want to get big or strong? there is a strong correlation but it makes a difference.
 

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i want to look strong lol.... i mean i am not looking to push a HUGE amount of weight, i just want to look cut and big... if you want i can post a pic of me and you can see my build... plus i went to the gym and lost my back and shoulder workout sheet today.... i take this creatine that starts with a "e"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ethyl-ester?


Post the pictures.

Why don't you want to put up big weight? I'd rather BE strong than look strong...BEING strong helps you improve the whole "looking" strong thing. It'll help you out in MMA as well.
 

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well if there 2 diffrent things then look... here is a pic or RIGHT now





BTW thats not a birth mark... its a bruise from jujitsu some how.
 

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I'd say get some more pictures


Back pictures. Chest pictures. Double Bi pictures. Legs. Both front and side views. The more pictures, the better you can judge your progress.
 

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i am growing decently, i just want another work out... i dont want to train for endurance and cardio... because MMA takes care of that. I wana train for strength.
 

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I hear the 5x5, Westside, Starting Strength, and stuff off of ironaddicts.com is quite helpful...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am just about to start my program next week but where ever I read about lifting that was a quality site they recommended Mark Rippetoe's "Starting Strength" program.

Here is how it looks (My program):

Day 1:

3x5 Squat
3x5 Bench Press
1x5 Deadlift
2x5-8 dips

Day 2:

3x5 Squat
3x5 Standing Military Press
3x5 Pendlay Rows
2x5-8 Chinups

This done 3x a week. ex. Mon: Day1, Wed: Day2, Friday: Day1

Arm work added 3-4 weeks later only done on the Friday

Parallel Bar Dips or Incline Skull Crushers 2x8-12
Barbell/DB/EZ-Bar curls 2x8-12

Weight added every week by 2.5-5% depending if you can do them that week.
 

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LoL ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What the hell is that?


Go to Alex's thread straight away dude.
 

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If you get stronger and eat right you will definitely look like you are strong.

Powerlifters who can bench 300, squat and deadlift above the 400s, arent scrawny looking things
 

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If you are doing mma, alex's thread will be to much on your body. the workout I posted along with intense mma and cr@p loads of food WILL make u big. When I go back to my old town, everyone comments on how mean I now look
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your diet is so so important while doing this. Especially is you have the same matabolisum as me. Do not stop eating!
 

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Oxide said:
LoL ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What the hell is that?


Go to Alex's thread straight away dude.
Sorry I don't mean to HIJACK this thread but what is wrong with my program?

I am just starting to lift.... and don't tell me you just said that because you think that program is "main stream" or you just like some other one... sigh :(!!!...

Be honest here.
 

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The big three all in one workout? Burnout

Extremely low volume for the big three? Pointless

Doing what seems like random exercises all over the place, and then adding an "arm day" after a few weeks? Why?
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
The big three all in one workout? Burnout

Extremely low volume for the big three? Pointless

Doing what seems like random exercises all over the place, and then adding an "arm day" after a few weeks? Why?
Bingo

You will be burned after 2 weeks and will hate yourself.

Only thing you can kind of do twice a week is chest, squats and deads is once a week to ensure enough rest
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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