Sometimes I get that when I try to bring them home under a pretext - nowadays, I mostly attempt first-date lays. Does it mean I didn't make her comfortable or is it simply BS that the girl was not interested/attracted enough? I usually tell them that it's no pressure and they generally continue talking to me over the phone/text, but nothing comes out of it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"I don't know you like that" or a variation thereof
- Thread starter Trunks
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Good for making your intentions known. But these women are either not attracted to you sexually, or just want to be friends.
Sure they'll still talk and text on the phone, only for your attention. They know you refuse to be an orbiter. So erase these numbers and replace them with new ones! You can always do better.
Case closed.
Sure they'll still talk and text on the phone, only for your attention. They know you refuse to be an orbiter. So erase these numbers and replace them with new ones! You can always do better.
Case closed.
Remember: when a woman is sufficiently attracted, she will be willing to have sex within 15 minutes of meeting a man. Ideally, you will be that man, and you will make her wait until the third date for sex. Any time she hesitates, it's safe to say she could be hornier.