Sorry but this is going to be a somewhat long story. During my senior year of high school I met an amazing girl. I liked her she liked me, that much was obvious. The problem was that she was a freshman at 15 and I was a senior at 18 so we never dated or anything, but the obvious signs of talking all of the time and basically becoming best friends without the friendship that usually gets attached to the friend zone. It was obvious that we both liked each other basically, but we both never just straight up told each other that we did, my reasoning because of the age gap and I didn’t know what her family would think. Anyway, I honestly without a doubt felt that this girl was my first love.
Enter now 2 years later. I am a sophomore in college and after all of this time I still believe that inside me I do and always will love this girl. I’m not a creep or anything obviously since I never acted on my feelings, but I do feel that I love her. I am coming to this message board because I really don’t feel like talking to my friends about this too much because they will just say how lame it is or whatever to think I was in love.
Basically I don’t know what to do. After on and off casual almost could have been relationships with various other people I still have feelings toward this girl. I will dream about her even when I am not thinking about her and then after that I will start to think about her again. What should I do??? Society doesn’t deem it appropriate for us to be together which is mainly why I have never confronted her about this. My plan was just to wait to see if anything would progress once she was out of college, but even then I would have to hope she goes to the same one as me. Should I act on my feelings and start talking to her more again, or should I just try and forget about her. Please I really need help with this situation its been a problem for years. If you guys need anymore background info about our relationship then please ask because I could honestly use some answers.
Enter now 2 years later. I am a sophomore in college and after all of this time I still believe that inside me I do and always will love this girl. I’m not a creep or anything obviously since I never acted on my feelings, but I do feel that I love her. I am coming to this message board because I really don’t feel like talking to my friends about this too much because they will just say how lame it is or whatever to think I was in love.
Basically I don’t know what to do. After on and off casual almost could have been relationships with various other people I still have feelings toward this girl. I will dream about her even when I am not thinking about her and then after that I will start to think about her again. What should I do??? Society doesn’t deem it appropriate for us to be together which is mainly why I have never confronted her about this. My plan was just to wait to see if anything would progress once she was out of college, but even then I would have to hope she goes to the same one as me. Should I act on my feelings and start talking to her more again, or should I just try and forget about her. Please I really need help with this situation its been a problem for years. If you guys need anymore background info about our relationship then please ask because I could honestly use some answers.