"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i dont know what to do witjh my best female friend...

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last week she was all over me and couldnt keep her hands off me...we talked alot during summer and now its school and she was all over me at first...but i never realy paid her much attention and she finaly flipped day before yesterday and asked when i walked by why i acted like i didnt even know her...i admit (but not to her) that i do do this...and now she ignores me and will purposly (at least i think purposly) walk up right to my firneds ans hug them and ignore me...we are just firneds but it was definalty closer than just normal firends...evry time i used to see her she woudl alway ye;l out my name and was so happy...now shes not saying a thing and just take a looka t me and leave..whyywhat should i do...i dont want to lose her :/...and i fear thats whats happening
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe you didn't make a move when she was all over you, and now she's trying to get you to mount up by inspiring a touch of jealously, or...she's a flirt (that's what it sounds like, seeing how it feels that it's just hugs and stuff)
 
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Docs said:
Maybe you didn't make a move when she was all over you, and now she's trying to get you to mount up by inspiring a touch of jealously, or...she's a flirt (that's what it sounds like, seeing how it feels that it's just hugs and stuff)
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last week she told me she loved me at least 4 times (in a serious and jokingly way) belive me we like best firends now she is ****ing ignoring me...for some **** reason
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What did you expect, seriously? She's overjoyed to see you, and you barely give her a glance? Duh. She got tired of the lack of reciprication.

You took 'being a challenge' and turned it into 'being impossible'. I wouldn't wanna be your friend either.
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i think you where right

i decided to be nice and i msged her first on msn for the first time...so she would get the idea that i dont hate her (had a feeling she wanted to talk to me because as soon as i signed in she instantly signs in...as soon as i sign out she instantly signed out, then went back on in ten minutes she conviently signs in again at the same time) and now i say hi back and actualy give her some attention and its back how we used to be exept a little better for her im guessing :]

hehehe thanks
 
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