"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont know what to do witjh my best female friend...

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last week she was all over me and couldnt keep her hands off me...we talked alot during summer and now its school and she was all over me at first...but i never realy paid her much attention and she finaly flipped day before yesterday and asked when i walked by why i acted like i didnt even know her...i admit (but not to her) that i do do this...and now she ignores me and will purposly (at least i think purposly) walk up right to my firneds ans hug them and ignore me...we are just firneds but it was definalty closer than just normal firends...evry time i used to see her she woudl alway ye;l out my name and was so happy...now shes not saying a thing and just take a looka t me and leave..whyywhat should i do...i dont want to lose her :/...and i fear thats whats happening
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maybe you didn't make a move when she was all over you, and now she's trying to get you to mount up by inspiring a touch of jealously, or...she's a flirt (that's what it sounds like, seeing how it feels that it's just hugs and stuff)
 
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Docs said:
Maybe you didn't make a move when she was all over you, and now she's trying to get you to mount up by inspiring a touch of jealously, or...she's a flirt (that's what it sounds like, seeing how it feels that it's just hugs and stuff)
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last week she told me she loved me at least 4 times (in a serious and jokingly way) belive me we like best firends now she is ****ing ignoring me...for some **** reason
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What did you expect, seriously? She's overjoyed to see you, and you barely give her a glance? Duh. She got tired of the lack of reciprication.

You took 'being a challenge' and turned it into 'being impossible'. I wouldn't wanna be your friend either.
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i think you where right

i decided to be nice and i msged her first on msn for the first time...so she would get the idea that i dont hate her (had a feeling she wanted to talk to me because as soon as i signed in she instantly signs in...as soon as i sign out she instantly signed out, then went back on in ten minutes she conviently signs in again at the same time) and now i say hi back and actualy give her some attention and its back how we used to be exept a little better for her im guessing :]

hehehe thanks
 
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