I don't know what to do for once!

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Alright I'll make this quick since I was about to write a long, long post about it

There's this hot Spanish-looking girl in my lunch that I promised myself that I'll get with. I've been pretty good with girls -- just not girls I "like". I saw her a few months ago, and one of her friends told me she's interested also. I had very small chats with her on the way to her bus like 3 times only, and got her number. Her accent is super-hot, so it threw me off and made me think she can't speak Enlish very well... but from what I hear she's pretty good.

A different guy has been trying to get with her for prolly 2 weeks, and I'm jsut sitting there letting it happen. Even though it should be me. I have a higher chance in getting with her than he is.

She told her friend she wanted a boyfriend a few months back. Her friend said she's interested in me becaue I'm very good looking.

I'm pretty well off. I just need to know how to approach her ***since I've already met her***... I can't do a random pick-up... it's much harder when I've already met her.

and there's no way she's "outta my league", I'm most likely the one thats outta her league... but I don't see why I get all excited when i get the thought of approaching.

tips?

 

[shydude]

Hello. Ok, dont be a fvkking *****, its nothing special!! COMON NOW, it sounds like kindergarden bull. She likes you, you like her, you are good looking, she is not super hot, you are out of her league, you know her, she likes you. Hmm let me see what are the chances of you getting rejected, I think its about 15%, the reason is couse your confidence is no where to be seen. Chiks love confident men, not becouse they can approach girls, but confidence is the key to the life, everything you do, all the risks you take, everything you fail, everything you succeded, and everything you tried, it all had confidence. When I approach girls, I turn into someone we call an actor, I act differently, i show all the cinfidence I need, and I act like rejection didnt existest, that what you should do. You are proud of yourself when you get chiks number, you are proud becouse you achieved something that took confidence, you believed in yourself. Stop thinking what to say to the girl when you know her, when you dont know her, There are billions of pick up lines, but you have to be special and have the one that no one knows.



Compliment her.........Ask her a question.........Ask her for help......Say something funny that will get her attention.........

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

that was perfect.

yeah i dont get it sometimes... people say im super-confident and say whats on my mind. but when its THE girl im a total puss. thanks for the reply.

 

[shydude]

^^ When you act,you turn into a different character. Acting has a lot to do with picking up women. Its not good to be yourself especially when you are trying to make a good impretion. Why do women love actors so much?? NOt only becouse of their fame, they can make you laugh and they can make you cry. People sau just be yourself a lot of times, but thats wrong, you have to be someone you wanna be, someone you wish to be. I am not saying go out there and become Tom Cruise. I am saying that deep inside you there are many voices, many personalities, many characters, and if you can discover them you will be Iresistable. When actors are sad, they dont go in public and turn they smile down, instead they smile to the cameras, they laugh, they enjoy every moment, but behind the scenes they have many problems!! SAMe thing with women, if you failed the test, you talk to girls with a sad face, you say I am sad, i failed the test, thats what turnes them down, they dont care about your life, about your problems, They care about your happy character side, they wanna see you smile and they want you to entertain them.....

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

ohhh you like her dude, she might just be the one you fall for.
Firstly, if she is way outta of your league, then why are you even mentioning about the other guy trying to pick her up??
If shes game and if you got enough experience, then go for it.
Just approach her as the normal you, put some flrting into it, add a bit of C+F in the mix and she should be yours since she already like you.
Next get a date, you should know how and what to do.
I think you could get her to be your GF if you really want her, things go good, she will be yours within a month. Spanish girls are pretty good in the bedroom too so you have nothing to lose dude.
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