"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i dont know if im ugly or hot

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I get approached...i also approach and generally stay in set for a good amount of time and friendly sexy rapport building.

the girls like to be my friend with benefit.

I think I'm their social proof.

I do get compliments by older women too.

so is it because I'm hot and no matter what I say is going to go well or because I worked on my personality and behave well in trying to pick up?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

SeymourCake

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You're doing a lot better than me.
 

bcollarmechanic

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it seems like this forum is really against the whole male attractive rating

while i understand looks are subjective there's still a lot you can help a fellow dj out with

plus being average or below average is not subjective at all really, when you get to the above average with certain girls is when it becomes subjective

you can somewhat tell a guy if hes average, below or sometimes above

you can also help alot by suggesting hair styles, facial hair, glasses and so on

so in my opinion i dont think the dj community should be so quick to criticize someone wanting to see how they stand in the looks department and what they can do to improve in that
 
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