"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know how to lose

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Don Juan
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Hello guys,

On the path of developing myself I realise a huge problem with the way I am.

I notice this very easy when I play online games for examples. I do not know how to lose and further more I get really angry when I lose and want to break stuff and kill myself.

Now this may happen in other areas of my life where I may not notice or misjudge. I don't like this. So far my best solution is to keep me off from things that trigger this state but I'm not settled with me knowing I react like this.
What would be the reason behind this and how should I modify this pattern?

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Spaz

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Naughty Ninja...

I certainly admire your sheer tenacity to keep on creating multiple accounts just to post in SS.

Next time make it harder for us to spot you - that way you can get a good laugh.
 
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