"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I dont know how to handle this.. does this means i'm repulsive?

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Girl: "You are not deformed or ugly, your face just doesnt make me horny in a first glance"

does this mean i'm sexually doomed forever? that im repulsive?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No way your free T levels are in the normal range. Mental illness or not, men do not behave this way. You are behaving like a b*tch.

I bet your testosterone/estrogen ratio is close to zero. Get a full physiological makeup and report back the results. As of now, you are physiologically f*cked.
 

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This sh*t again. See a therapist!!
 
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guru1000 said:
No way your free T levels are in the normal range. Mental illness or not, men do not behave this way. You are behaving like a b*tch.

I bet your testosterone/estrogen ratio is close to zero. Get a full physiological makeup and report back the results. As of now, you are physiologically f*cked.
wish you were right. unfortunately that's not the case.

my only chance is hitting the gym, roids, take care of myself more and forget all about women.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you are being sincere, I will help you. I just don't believe you. Post a pic of the test results. Black out your personal info.
 

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take a consensus.

if one girl thinks you're ugly, it could mean a thousand things, only one of which is that you're actually ugly

if the general opinion amongst women who know you is that you're ugly, then you're actually ugly, which can be fixed.

that applies to any woman's opinion on anything

also keep in mind that only the opinions of women you'd bang really count.
 

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You can't choose attraction and it doesn't mean you are ugly.

Example is someone like Natalie Portman most guys think she's hot as hell. She does nothing for me. I can think of plenty of other examples. Do you think she'd hear that I wasn't attracted to her and think she was hideous....
 

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You can get past not being attractive. But you have to rely on style and conversation and overall CONFIDENCE. If you're ugly enough to not get them to that point, you're **** out of luck. Even if you're average of slightly above average, you'll still have to fight that same fight with a girl better looking than you. It's the same as any guy in history has had to prove to land the girl that makes guys go "why the **** is she with *him*?!"
 
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