"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i dont know how to handle her

shubh

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hey friends....
i like a girl from the last 4 years...we were in the same class 2 years ago.there i have talked to her only two times.then i changed my school..then i met her on facebook about a year ago.we talked twice...then i told her that i liked her..2 years ago..one day i fell ill and i was in the hospital.there i was feeling very lonely..then i messaged her that i love her very much..i cant live without her..etc etc.then she told me that she only respects me as a good person..and she said that she doesnt likes me.then i deleted her from facebook as my friend.then after 4-5 months she sent me a friend request.i accepted that...after my schools get over i have strated to know about alpha male behaviour...i dont have her mobile number and i also dont know what to do next...so here's our latest chat..
well she recently gave a national level exam so here's the chat-
me-i think you didnt do well in the exam.i knew that through your expressions.(i was teasing her)
she-hello!! exams first part went quite good.and secong part went ok-ok.and how do u know through my expressions?
me-well its a secret art lady_!!! but probably u wudnt understand!!
she-why??
me-only friends can know the secrets like that..
she-so am i not your friend?
me-oh, i thought u were just flirting with me
she-what?
me- never mind,i thought u were just like other girls
she-what do you mean?
me-what things you dislike?(i tried to change the topic)
she-i asked what you meant?
me-wow..you get angry too quickly..but i like the girls with a sense of humour.

thats all.i messaged this her a day ago ..she didnt replied yet...please help me out guys....
should i make a move and ask her phone number?
what is she thinking about me???
what would you have done??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speed dawg

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Take this crap to the DJ forum, kid.
 

yuppaz

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Yikes - this is what happens when completely socially unskilled people try to be ALPHUUUU PUA's....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wow. I'd suggest letting this one go man. You're 18, you'll have more opportunities in the future but only if you work on yourself first. Read some books or online material on flirting and general social cues. It will only help.
 

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Dear Shubbh,
Sorry Olds chap but you are wasting your time here....Whilst in the Past India bought Eroticism to an Art form,look at the Temple Walls,read the Kharma Sutra....Your Interesting Nation is going through a Puritanical Stage...It will change,And young Men like you are the reason Why it will change....Please excuse the Attitudes of some of the Brothers,they just don't understand...So if you want a free and easy life style,you will have to get out of India.
 
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