"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

i dont know how to handle her!!!

what should i do....??

  • should i keep trying to get her

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • should i forget her and move on

    Votes: 2 100.0%
  • Total voters
    2
S

shubh

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2012
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Age
32
Location
india
:( hey friends....
i like a girl from the last 4 years...we were in the same class 2 years ago.there i have talked to her only two times.then i changed my school..then i met her on facebook about a year ago.we talked twice...then i told her that i liked her..2 years ago..one day i fell ill and i was in the hospital.there i was feeling very lonely..then i messaged her that i love her very much..i cant live without her..etc etc.then she told me that she only respects me as a good person..and she said that she doesnt likes me.then i deleted her from facebook as my friend.then after 4-5 months she sent me a friend request.i accepted that...after my schools get over i have strated to know about alpha male behaviour...i dont have her mobile number and i also dont know what to do next...so here's our latest chat..
well she recently gave a national level exam so here's the chat-
me-i think you didnt do well in the exam.i knew that through your expressions.(i was teasing her)
she-hello!! exams first part went quite good.and secong part went ok-ok.and how do u know through my expressions?
me-well its a secret art lady_!!! but probably u wudnt understand!!
she-why??
me-only friends can know the secrets like that..
she-so am i not your friend?
me-oh, i thought u were just flirting with me
she-what?
me- never mind,i thought u were just like other girls
she-what do you mean?
me-what things you dislike?(i tried to change the topic)
she-i asked what you meant?
me-wow..you get angry too quickly..but i like the girls with a sense of humour.

thats all.i messaged this her a day ago ..she didnt replied yet...please help me out guys....
should i make a move and ask her phone number?
what is she thinking about me???
what would you have done??
 
Last edited:

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

T

Tiguere

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2009
Messages
1,036
Reaction score
85
stop harrasing the girl and read.pimpin for dummies... you can find the pdf on google.
 
S

shubh

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2012
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Age
32
Location
india
but friend i want to change my image of a nice guy in front of her...thats why i have done this...
 
I

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
shubh said:
but friend i want to change my image of a nice guy in front of her...thats why i have done this...
Click to expand...
Well, that's not very smart, is it?

Find some other girls. The reason you care so much about this one girl is because you have no other girls in your life.
 
S

shubh

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2012
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Age
32
Location
india
no..thats probably not the reason..i have some girls in my contact...but i dont have much interest in them...i like this girl very much...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

P

Powerofmindset

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2010
Messages
73
Reaction score
0
That's exactly your problem...you like her wayyyy too much. You physically spent little time with her, yet your emotional investment is thru the roof! You have done nothing sexual with this girl and probably haven't even touched her at all. Your conversations also are pretty dull and you kind of sound like a girl. Even if you were to get the girl right this second there would be no way you would be able to keep her. Book of Pook, DJ Bible, read the forums. Do it.
 
S

shubh

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2012
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Age
32
Location
india
should i make a move??and ask her phone number?
 
M

Mantis Toboggan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2010
Messages
859
Reaction score
58
shubh said:
should i make a move??and ask her phone number?
Click to expand...
As opposed to not making a move and not asking for her phone number? Yes.

You're still just the average case of oneitis. But, go ahead. Play the hard way.
 
SgtSplacker

SgtSplacker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2011
Messages
2,039
Reaction score
504
And by the way your responses in your conversation are furiously annoying. You don't make any sense, and you are trying to change a subject when she didn't even know the subject to begin with. To her it probably sounded like you were a total idiot. When someone tells you "what?" twice in a row to two different comments it's time to stop trying to be cool and explain what you are saying before you offend someone.
 
C

coochieman

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2012
Messages
199
Reaction score
6
Location
Drowning In Vaginal Fluids. Help.
Please, please, please. This is not an "average" case of oneitis, no case of oneitis is "average". It is the HIV/AIDS of the game.

Fucck that your "I've become an alpha" talk. You are one big chump. Dude, your posts tells that you are very far behind. You cannot just come here with no knowledge of the game itself and expect miracles. "Why?!" you might ask. Don't worry, I'd tell you why..... You have no game at all! Final. [Truthfully, I pray you have at least little insight].

Go read the dj-bible for starters. I plead on my behalf for consecutive posters to suggest more materials for you to read and grow.

So, leave this girl alone and develop. Enjoy surfing this site. Stop chumping.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top