"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont have enough time. how do i give her a sense of urgency without looking needy?

Crow

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Between work and the summer ending in ten days with plates returning and a lot of travell coming on line. My new plates are moving along too slow. Is it just asking to mess things up by pushing for more time together? Whay if I just want to run it through before september arrives? I'm mainly thinking of one gorgeous but slightly cuckoo bird.

I'm tempted to announce myself as being highly unavailable and telling her directly that it needs to be now if ever.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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Crow said:
Between work and the summer ending in ten days with plates returning and a lot of travell coming on line. My new plates are moving along too slow. Is it just asking to mess things up by pushing for more time together? Whay if I just want to run it through before september arrives? I'm mainly thinking of one gorgeous but slightly cuckoo bird.

I'm tempted to announce myself as being highly unavailable and telling her directly that it needs to be now if ever.
So you really just want to bang that "cuckoo bird" by Saturday night?
What do you have to lose by trying?
IF she rejects you, work your way down the list.
 

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Problem is, I'm going to be gone more than half the time until Saturday.

I have two other in the bag and one that can keep in a holding pattern.
 
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