"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i dont have enough time. how do i give her a sense of urgency without looking needy?

Crow

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Between work and the summer ending in ten days with plates returning and a lot of travell coming on line. My new plates are moving along too slow. Is it just asking to mess things up by pushing for more time together? Whay if I just want to run it through before september arrives? I'm mainly thinking of one gorgeous but slightly cuckoo bird.

I'm tempted to announce myself as being highly unavailable and telling her directly that it needs to be now if ever.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crow said:
Between work and the summer ending in ten days with plates returning and a lot of travell coming on line. My new plates are moving along too slow. Is it just asking to mess things up by pushing for more time together? Whay if I just want to run it through before september arrives? I'm mainly thinking of one gorgeous but slightly cuckoo bird.

I'm tempted to announce myself as being highly unavailable and telling her directly that it needs to be now if ever.
So you really just want to bang that "cuckoo bird" by Saturday night?
What do you have to lose by trying?
IF she rejects you, work your way down the list.
 

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Problem is, I'm going to be gone more than half the time until Saturday.

I have two other in the bag and one that can keep in a holding pattern.
 
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