"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I dont have a title for this............

Badmannaz

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God this guy really broke down !!!


look man i'm a ****ing AFC peace of dog doo doo but what i realized is that NO -ONE can help you


EXCEPT you

so what i did is i pictured everything wrong with me

1.confidence
2.style
3.money
4.procrastination

and what i did to fix that???

1.started excercising
2.started shopping
3.got a new job(with great benefits)
4.and i got off this site!!! right now after this post

no one's going to help you F*CK the ADVice F*CK the step by Steps and F*CK your AFCness.

Reject that **** and start being a man...

not a DON JUAN!!!!

A MAN!!!

A DOn JUAN IS A FIGMeNT Of 90% of these guys on here imagination and a life style that only about %5 live!!!

so STFU gET off this site and better your worthless pathetic life so you can start bangin REAL WOMEN!!!

CUZ REAL WOMEN (ATTRACTIVE, FIT, INTELLIGENT)
WANT REAL MEN!! (HANDSOME,IN SHAPE, AMBITIOUS)










grow some balls
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vibe

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In addition to all the things people have been saying to you about self-confidence, etc...maybe you need to change your scene. If the brothers in your scene look down on you for being an intelligent professional then go someplace else and find brothers and sisters who are on your wavelength. You are going for the wrong crowd, man. It obviously ain't your scene.

You're better off anyway. Ignorance breeds ignorance. F*ck that sh*t.

~Vibe~
 

backbreaker

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Here is a little advice..


If a girl leaves you because you aren't "thuggish" enough.. .maybe she isn't the one you need to be worried about in the first place... She has enough issues if her MAN has to be a thug, or at least act like one.


I had a girlfriend, atually the longest GF I ever had in my life, not only leave me becasue I wasn't "hood".

Being 17, at first, I tried to convince her otherwise... Then, like day to night, I realized if she is willing to leave me, as good of a match that we were for the time being, because I live in the better part of town and I am trying to do something with my life besides sit on the street all day and do drugs and hang with the wrong crowd, ,then more power to her.

I saw her not to long ago, I think 2-3 months ago, and she coudnt' even look me in the face.. Thank god I left when I did.. she has 3 kids now and still has the same job that she had when her and I were still dating.
 

locarius

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You have too many issues to deserve a great woman.

GET YOUR **** TOGETHER AND YOU WILL ATTRACT WOMEN.

Work on your INNER game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speedo_meme

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quit cussing God
 

Gonzalo

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Take some time off. Seems like women are not your biggest issue right now.
 

Q-Pid

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Here's two tips for you:

1. Stop Posting
2. Start Reading
 

FM 3321

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
SO NOBODY CARES...no body gives a fvck.....what did i do to deserve this shyt..........what

I've noticed people on this forum give harsh replies but that's a very good thing. If you can't handle a harsh reply from someone on an internet forum, how are you going to be strong enough to deal with real world competition and especially women. Keep that in mind.

That's why this forum is great, people don't sugar coat sh1t for you, they tell you straight up.

We all care to some degree because we're all learning together and learn from others mistakes as well as successes. So re-read the posts that seem to attack or flame, they have some very valuable information to give if you're man enough to not take them personally.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lebRambo

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hmmm....well if all the BLACK girls are attracted to thugs (which I don't believe is true, but lets just assume it is for the purpose of this discussion), then why not mack some WHITE girls? :D
 

Badmannaz

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is mr. cardio black??

n that case he better toughen up b/c black chicks have stronger personalities and more *****ier than some white girls i know...but that's not all black girls i'm talking about just about 65%
 

Pimp-sicle

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Someone shoot this kid, I can't stand his whining anymore!!




PIMP
 

Bloke

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
now listen very fvckin close to what I am about to say, get an understanding. I am starting to see just what the fvck my problem is. Growing up, I was always picked on in school, (I am black), and everyday always has the chance to fight but I always either backed down, or (and this is true) just let the guy kick my azz so that the fight would just be over. So, and I don’t know if its in the white culture as much, but in the black culture, we have a lot of haters here. When you are up, or considered a threat of any kind, dudes start fvcking with you. So, it wasn’t (and this is a true story) until earlier this year that I seen the light, when I let (and I am serious, because I did not even try to fight back) I let a guy at the titty bar kick my azz and I had enough. So what I am finding here is this, thugs in general, dominant most of the black girls here, its kind of like, seeing that the thug is dangerous and unpredictable, that is what attracts women to them, then, the woman gets scared to leave his azz…..so, the only damn thing that a young black man can do literally, is start to turn into some type of a thug. Its like, being professional, going to college, etc, is not even considered black, I am fo real. Now I don’t look like a nerd at all, and I know that I have been posting some *****-azz shyt on this damn website and bytch azz punks have been talking shyt, but I don’t really give a fvck. What I am here for is some serious help…that just going out in the field has not yet answered. I have never been the type to fight, but now it seems that I am breaking out of that shell, but now it seems like I will have to fight all the time constantly. What I am trying to say is, the world around me looks fvcked up, and if you wanna make money, that’s cool, if you wanna be successful, that’s cool, but if you want a bytch, you got to literally kick azz for her, because you got motafvckas constantly fvcking with you, so being a black dude, you have no god damn choice but to turn into a thug, just to protect yourself
People didn't pick on you cuz your black, (& if your using your race to excuse your poor for with women, your just plain sad) they picked on you cuz YOU LET THEM pick on you.

P.S No need to swear
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Soprano

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"thug life" is long dead... pull your f*cking pants up already...

i hear girls say all the time "i love thugs" and i cant help but laugh on the inside, then on the outside because i cant contain it anymore... god damn it's funny because their definition of "thug" is kids from the suburbs talking about their "hard life" in the "hood" and using slang they heard in movies or songs that they dont know the definitions of


"girls want thugs"

if you want to be a clown so some girls will "like" you and further make our entire race feel the consquences of being a fake thug, then go for it. either way, shut the **** up... seriously man lol
 
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