"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"i don't give my number to anyone"

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this girl named ten or tin, whatever her name is lol..shes an HB 9.5. i talked to her in class..she was telling me how she works out how she needs to eat 5 small meals a day. man this ***** was ****y. she cracked her knuckles, she drank a whole bottle of water, eat an orange, and a brownie. whole time i talked to her she would laugh at my jokes, give me eye contact, but she was a little ****y. so at the end of the class i was about to walk out, but then decided to lower her big head. i told her " you don't work out, flex show me...shoulders abs? biceps back? cardio?" then she tells me that " she doesn't show her guns to anyone"..im like okay whatever.. so our midterm is coming and i said " lemme get you rnumber in case i want to form a study group, i got like 3 or 4 people" ...she was like " oh really?, well i dont' give out my number to anyone" she said this with the biggest smile and the most gorgeous look i ever seen, i even popped one during the walk to my next class. rejection didn't even hurt...i felt excited..i felt like there was a challenge. honestly, i think hb 7's are easy grabs. i never had my first kiss or had really intimate relationship due to being very picky, i get girls who call me to hang out and i throw them into the friend zone. but this girl i really want.


SUGGESTIONS? i am thinking of sitting next to her next class. ask her how her day was..be nice to her, yet poke fun at her when i get the chance. does this girl show interest when she says " i don't give my number to anyone". hard to get? i have never been rejected from a number before
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Damn, I love girls like this.

Yes, sit next to her.
 

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So what should I say to her in class. Should I ignore her let her talk to me or should I keep bashing her head. I wanna leave the sashple approach now lol
 

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What does she having to eat have to do with getting with this girl?

how can you think HB 7's are easy to bag and you haven't bagged ANYTHING yet?

DJ bible. Now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yomama

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backbreaker said:
What does she having to eat have to do with getting with this girl?

how can you think HB 7's are easy to bag and you haven't bagged ANYTHING yet?

DJ bible. Now.
First me talking about her eating shows that she wants to draw attention to herself. Second of all I'm showing what kind of person this girl is. She's into health, gym, and she has the persistence to take over a class thee times. Hb7 are easy for me. I have gotten numbers from them and even invited them over for drinks. Most of all of them after some kino and flirting, but I don't go for the kiss. In fact, two of the girls actually approached me for the kiss but I pull away. I like having fun socializing with girls but I don't play around and I throw them into the friendzone. I have a confidence in myself and not afraid of rejection from hot girls. I came to this forum to Bag got girls. The ones that make it exciting to go after. Those are the ones that actually make me nervous. The cute standard girl doesn't suffice my sexual needs. Also I have read the bible many times: in fact, too much that I shouldn't read it again for the sake of time expense.

My question is how should I steer for this attractive lady. i made fun of her, teased herl how do I pull in the number through her b1tvh barrier?
 

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First me talking about her eating shows that she wants to draw attention to herself.
her eating implies that she is hungry. nothing more, nothing less.

Second of all I'm showing what kind of person this girl is.
a person who apparantly gets hungry at lunch time.

Most of all of them after some kino and flirting, but I don't go for the kiss
then how are you any different from the man who jacks off 50 times a day? neither of you are getting laid.

I have a confidence in myself and not afraid of rejection from hot girls. I came to this forum to Bag got girls. The ones that make it exciting to go after.
look, i'm not trying to flame you, but you arenot special. that is what took me so long to realize when I came here. I'm a good looking guy who had some decently hot women interested in me, but yet I wasn't getting laid. the bottom line is, you wouldn't have came here (unless you are a troll), if you didn't have problem with getting women.

the first thing you have to do, is to become open minded enough to listen to people who actually get laid from time to time. there are lots of people here. otherwise you are wasting our and your time. i don't help people who dont' want to be helped.

If you were such a great catch, and I'm not saying you dont' have some great qualities about you, but when this chick looks at you, she isn't thinking "I want to rip his clothes off, damn he's sexy".

The reason I said read the DJ Bible, is because the answer is there.

I don't waste my time answering questions that have already been answered but people are too lazy to look them up.

If you can't read the DJ bible, ovbiously you really don't want to get laid.
 

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just try again to get her number, im quite sure she would want you to, also id use guilt to get her number :p like 'so your going to let your studies suffer because you dont give out your number?(pull a confused look then smile)
 

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This is what you should have said.

Nice! You don't give your phone number out either? I don't think we'd get along very well. We have way too much in common. Well, I'm still going to get this study group together. Feel free to get into in whenever you feel like it. Take it easy, bye.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree with Mav....act aloof dont freak that she said that but say that it's her lose and she is gonna have to work her ass off since your not gonna help her.

I think you should ask her out on a date.......but do something that she likes, ask her out running or jogging in the morning before school or maybe on Saturday.
 

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j0n024 said:
I agree with Mav....act aloof dont freak that she said that but say that it's her lose and she is gonna have to work her ass off since your not gonna help her.

I think you should ask her out on a date.......but do something that she likes, ask her out running or jogging in the morning before school or maybe on Saturday.

this is why everyone should not give advice.

Becuase this contridcts everything that is tought on this forum and everything htat is in the DJ Bible.
 

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j0n024 said:
I think you should ask her out on a date.......but do something that she likes, ask her out running or jogging in the morning before school or maybe on Saturday.
Don't do what the girl wants. You want to invite her into your exciting life, not the other way around.
 

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The number thing was a **** test, which you failed. YOu should have told her your not just anyone. Show some ****yness back. WHat's done is done, though. Mavrick is right, bring her into your frame, don't go into hers. Back breaker has a point too. If you just want to hook up with 9s and 10s, more power to you, but they're hard to come by. If you never close with other girls, how do you know how good your endgame is? Dont limit yourself. Look at it as practice, for when it is time to play in the big game.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Mavrick said:
This is what you should have said.

Nice! You don't give your phone number out either? I don't think we'd get along very well. We have way too much in common. Well, I'm still going to get this study group together. Feel free to get into in whenever you feel like it. Take it easy, bye.
the opportunity to say that already passed when he started this thread, i think you should just persist with her, theres no need for complicated mind games in school.
 

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mavrick 's response would have sent him straight to the creep and loser zone that would have been rumour spread throughout school till this guy couldn't go into a class without the girls staring at him like he's some kind of leper.


You want the real meaning of
"I don't give my number to anyone?"


It means you aint' attractive enough to HER , build some muscles, do some ****. Nothing you say or do will get you her pssy

she finds you low value until you increase it yourself. You are like a hyundai to her now, Try upgrading yourself to a lincoln at least.
 

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jcap said:
mavrick 's response would have sent him straight to the creep and loser zone that would have been rumour spread throughout school till this guy couldn't go into a class without the girls staring at him like he's some kind of leper.


You want the real meaning of
"I don't give my number to anyone?"


It means you aint' attractive enough to HER , build some muscles, do some ****. Nothing you say or do will get you her pssy

she finds you low value until you increase it yourself.
best post in thread award.

"I don't give my number to anyone?" = "I'm not giving my number to you" her friends have her number, her mom has it, her ex boyfriend has it, the guy she's currently sleeping with has it. the guy she reeeeally like has it, her study partners has it. It's you she doesn't want to give it to. I didn't want to say it..but honestly....there it is.
 

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Guys you cant be that specific. its as simple as that, we can only guess, we dont know what the social dynamics are like there, and he explained that it seemed like she was playing hard to get.

classic example would be when lots of guys were telling me not to ask a girl to be my gf :S i made her wait alot longer than i needed to lol and she would never have asked, because thats not the way it works here! period. (she's now my gf)

And if he persists, he can judge from her responses whether or not to continue persisting, if he fails then it could circulate sure but at the end of the day if someone tries to be nasty to him by raising it, how damaging it is would be dependant on how he reacts, if he says so what? theyl know he doesnt care and they wont either.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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