I don't give a damn about girls.

[handle]

I can walk the halls of school without gawking at some girl and placing her on a pedestal. I can tell a female when she's droning on about something I could care less about. I don't care how hot or how heavenly a chick is, they're just people and I have better things to do with my life than to contemplate their beauty while they're out at some party making out with a guy. I have objectives, I have goals, and if a girl comes into my life that's just fine as long as she doesn't get in the way of more important things.

At the same time, I can tell that there's chicks eyeing me in classes. I now know that the girl from math isn't just asking me for the homework questions. I know that the shy girl who makes eye contact in the hall wants me, I can tell. It doesn't make me sweat, doesn't make me unconfortable, but I can see it.





Damn, I love this site.

 

[snintel]

You don't give a damn about girls yet you come to a site and spend hours learning how to get girls? Right.

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

Originally posted by snintel
You don't give a damn about girls yet you come to a site and spend hours learning how to get girls? Right.

Did you read his post?

 

[naoi deag se deag]

Cool man.

 

[Lost In the Seas]

this is either a phrase of changing into a DJ, or changing ur sexuality to another...........

 

[BxPrince24]

I think that it's a good thing he doesn't. I know I don't. Girls have pissed me off so much, their games and attitudes are something I don't want to deal with so I pretty much decided to only worry about me and not give a damn about them. And even though that was the case, i continued reading and learning from this site. And what happened? I finally got to go out with a girl that I found attractive, and because I've learned so much from this site, she was pretty much all over me. It's something that I think every guy trying to get with girls go through unless if they have the charisma and charm from the start. We get frustrated, get pissed off at girls, concentrate out ourselves, do things for our own enjoyment which then attracts girls.

 

[white cloud 8]

I think this is a very good and valid saying, I mean, why should you care really? Some girls think they are the sh*t, I just find it funny that they do because in reality who really gives two sh*ts? Don't worry about anyone except you because in the end, you is all you got.

 

[Arioch]

What do you mean "if a girl comes into your life?" I'd like to hear that story. You must be a hunky guy to have relations with women without putting in any effort or caring at all. Or maybe you're just the last man in the state?

Either way, kudos. I envy people who don't care.

 

[BxPrince24]

today was the first time that I've gotten somewhere with a girl I like without putting much, if any work in it. I guess that I've made quite a few of the things I learned in the DJB apart of my personality so it doesn't seem like work.

Aside from today I haven't gotten very far with the girls I wanted and I've never had a gf. So I've been without a girlfriend for 18 years, during those 18 years I've become comfortable with myself, I know how to enjoy things by myself and I know how to keep myself happy without the support of anyone other than myself.

So I pretty much have stopped caring about getting a girlfriend, it was no longer a factor for me, I was comfortable being by myself, I've grown so accustomed to it that it's like I was almost afraid that if I get a girl, she would come and mess things up. I felt that I wouldn't have the time to do the things I normally do, I would be obligated to call her though I hate calling people, etc... And I decided that I didn't care to have a girlfriend. I pretty much wanted to be single, but that didn't stop me from looking at attractive girls though.

My point is, if you've lived long enough without something, it's pretty easy not to care about it.

 

[Cremasta]

Originally posted by handle
I can walk the halls of school without gawking at some girl and placing her on a pedestal. I can tell a female when she's droning on about something I could care less about. I don't care how hot or how heavenly a chick is, they're just people and I have better things to do with my life than to contemplate their beauty while they're out at some party making out with a guy. I have objectives, I have goals, and if a girl comes into my life that's just fine as long as she doesn't get in the way of more important things.

At the same time, I can tell that there's chicks eyeing me in classes. I now know that the girl from math isn't just asking me for the homework questions. I know that the shy girl who makes eye contact in the hall wants me, I can tell. It doesn't make me sweat, doesn't make me unconfortable, but I can see it.





Damn, I love this site.

Well done Handle, you've reached a real milestone. Life is going to be a lot easier for you now.
Just a small word of warning from someone who got to this stage as well. This is the time where you can take the attitude a bit too far and become a real arsehole. You've got the right attitude, just remember to think before talking and not give everyone in range both barrels of your new look on life.

Cheers

 

[DJ4Real]

I think what he's trying to say is [women aren't the center of my attention]. But, I'm pretty confident that he cares about women.
Same goes for me, I care about women very much, I'm just not overly diehard crazy about em.

 

[SamePendo]

Yeah it feels great.

I feel that also. But I make an extra effort to get womens numbers. If not, next thing you know, probably plenty of women who could have been the woman of your life, have slipped away. Think about it. Yeah I know... what are you gonna do about it?