"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't get this girl!

wakkawakka

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OK so theres this girl I've known for quite a while now but we only started talking properly recently. She always says how much she wants to see me, she writes things on my facebook saying she loves me and she's told me she wants to have sex with me etc. Sounds like im in there yeah? Nope.

Whenever I try to arrange meeting her she is always 'busy' or changes the subject. Sometimes she texts me things like "I almost just came to your house" and weird stuff like that.

Should I just move on from her or does anyone have any ideas of how I can get her to meet with me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gangster Of Love

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Why would she want to give up her orbiter, and all the attention he brings to her, by hooking up with him?

She gets off more on doing what she's doing, in other words, just teasing you, and talking about doing it, than actually doing it.

You've either been in this hole/trap for way to long, so she no longer has interest, or, she never really had any interest in you. Both lead to a big waste of time.

Stop wasting your time. The better question is, How many more girls are you currently actively working on, as you waste time on this one?
 

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wakkawakka said:
OK so theres this girl I've known for quite a while now but we only started talking properly recently. She always says how much she wants to see me, she writes things on my facebook saying she loves me and she's told me she wants to have sex with me etc. Sounds like im in there yeah? Nope.

Whenever I try to arrange meeting her she is always 'busy' or changes the subject. Sometimes she texts me things like "I almost just came to your house" and weird stuff like that.

Should I just move on from her or does anyone have any ideas of how I can get her to meet with me?
your johnson isnt large enough
 

Kenny Powers

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Start doing more push pull to mess with her head!!!!! I haven't gotten very good at this yet but what little I've done has been pretty effective. Start blowing her off and don't apologize or give her an excuse. Don't respond to some of her messages and if you do wait a while. This throws them off more than you might think because there so used to guys responding quickly and end up sitting around wondering what it is you are doing that is preventing you from responding. Keep giving her signs that you are interested then pull away randomly. This girl sounds like a huge biitch/attention *****/ cok tease, so do us all a favor and show no mercy. If she responds negatively then just stop talking to her. Chances are she'll come back to you though.

Trust me messing with a girl is not only super fun and satisfying but is effective. Just don't give a damn about her and remember that you probably won't get with her so what do you have to lose. If you're mysterious, unpredictable and just a little weird there is a chance she will eventually become yours. Your going to have to be very disciplined though and blow her off or ignore her even when there is a chance to hook up.

Don't believe me? This weekend a girl i met recently and who knew I was into her texted me at 2am asking what I was up to. I'd been blowing her off all night and told her I was kinda tired and going to bed. I ran into her at a party last night and she was all over me. You just have to be patient and disciplined

Keep us updated
 

wakkawakka

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Thank you kind people. I just needed a kick up the arse.

I'll just ignore her for a while then I'll give that a go mate cheers but im not too bothered about her now.

Moving swiftly on!

Can anyone post any links to more info about girls like these?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WhitePimp

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"Come over and fvck me or leave me alone. I don't have time for this sh!t"

Might as well go guns blazing.
 
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