"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i dont get it at all! (about pooks bible and becoming a DJ ...)

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i dont get it at all! (about the book of pook and becoming a DJ ...)

hey guys i just registered
i'm in the community of seduction almost 2 years now i was how to say a robot doin all the mystery style ross jeffries until i discovered the book of pook

i just start to read the book of pook and i love it simply genius but i dont get it
if pook say that we have to be natural(and i must confess thats what i was looking for since i discovered the community of seduction.... how to became more natural less technique and all that stuff)
i understand that we need to be the price hard to get push and pull and confident and ****y and funny but from here how can i open a girl if its not with indirect game like 'hey i need a quick female opinion who lie more men or women ?' or build attraction or get a connection etc.
or maybe without all the routine DHV stories etc.

can someone please explain to me how does it work how can i be a natural without all this stuff ???
what are all the steps since seeing a woman in the street/bar/club/whatever till get her into bed ?
how can i close a girl without it ???
i really want to become a DJ but i need some help here ...

Thx
TheMale
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You STILL need to pick up. the difference is you are IMPROVING yourself to the point where YOU are the catch.....NOT her. You don't care if you land her or not,because YOU have other things going on in your life[and other women,if you are the success you should be]

THINK of the difference between Mystery and Style.... Mystery had NOTHING but women and sex. Style joined the community to WRITE A BOOK. Style got better at sex,but he had a life/job outside of sex[he just wrote about sex in a couple books]He is living his dream,but where is Mystery? Did he ever realize his dream of being a performing MAGICIAN in Vegas?
 

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"Hi, my name is comic_relief. What is your name?"

In the club scene, following a script is permissible in my opinion (i've been here six or seven years now on and off) but in real world situations those scripts just fall apart.

In order to be natural, one must have an interesting life. For me, I bicycle cross country (going on third cross country bicycle tour this summer), build housing for low income families, and workout. I do them for myself, not other people. I just find it fun but it seems that people love to hear about the first two. So I tell stories and they are fun to hear as well.

If one uses scripts, it appears that they have nothing to offer. If you make your life interesting than you should be able to pick up chicks no problem.

Hope that helped.

- comic_relief
 

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thx guys for all your answer im happy to finally discover 'the light' as you say but ...
so lets assume i see a girl in a bar/club/street
and i want her what i have to do ?!
all the steps stay the same
i mean
i do need to open her no matter how (e.g. hey i need a quick femal opinion, i just saw you and you look cute but ... etc.)
and then transition attraction disqualification qualification and so on ???
still need to use the cold reading, DHV stories and routine ???
and what about all the mystery's tip on how exactly to approche a women from the side and lean back etc ??

tell me how it work for you ?
how do you do when you see a cute girl you want to seduce ???

p.s. mystery ross jeffries and david d also saying that you need to get a good lifestyle do what you wanna do etc etc. so at the end of the day what is so different ???
 
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When it comes to women they literally can Smell The Confidence oozing off of a guy.....C&F is the way to the Pvssy i couldn't say it anymore....people dont understand this and try to number close or talk to a girl....it's seriously about ATTITUDE ATTITUDE ATTITUDE....chicks like a guy with one of those....and if she doesn't she's a virgin or mormon....

women CHOOSE the man they want and then we do the rest....we get caught up trying to pick up women but we have the game backwards..all a guy can do is PEACOCK (SHOW YOUR A$$) aka show-off...whether its a nice body nice car...nice attitude whatever and a woman postitions her self for you to take her that's it!!! so stop trying to pick up women and just work on YOURSELF if you want women thats all u can do...thats the mindset of a DJ...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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badmannaz the women not always choose ... theres this thing that gambler do its 'stealth attraction' i tried it some times and its workin imagine your in the train you see a girl who reading a book youre like tryin to read the name of the book the girl see it a lil bit pantomime and then the conversation is on ... you dont need to wait until she choose you

and about working on myself im ok with that personnaly thats what im doin but its like you are a sexy guy (lets say brad pitt) and if a women choose you but you dont know how to be interesting (with DHV routine cold reading and all that stuff) it aint gonna work you can be a greek god but if you dont know how to deal with women (im not talking about the H2G or preselection but im talking about the conversation and all the stuff mentioned up) it aint gonna work
so yes i understand we need to focus on ourself but from here what are you doin to attract build attraction connection close with a women ???
 

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Stop trying to sneak your why into letting her know your attracted. Tell her. You see a girl you like, be a man and get what you want. You see her walking by and you find her rather attractive, so you walk up to her, and say, "Excuse me, I just saw you walking by and I couldn't help notice how beautiful you were. I had to come over and find out more about you."

BOOM, done. She is taken aback by you forwardness and confidence. Your open personality and interesting life you have created should help you through the rest of the conversation. Don't be afraid to tell women what you want. Don't do it about everything you want, just some stuff. There is no reason to be afraid of your physical attraction to a women. Men like women. There is no reason to be embarrassed and shy about it either.

But none of this will work unless you take a step outside your house and actuAlly practice this stuff. Your gonna have to get over your fears. Your a man. Men race their fears. They are protectors. They can't afford to be afraid of stuff. Take care of what's important. It's your duty as a man.

Hope this helped. Good luck mate.
 

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you probably right ... ill try to apply that im a man im sexual and i make no excse for my desire !!! thank you bro

lets see if theres some other ideas
 

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I never used techniques, lines or pickup tricks, EVER. Nor do I believe in them to give you complete satisfaction in what you're doing. Look at Mystery and his crew. They're a bunch of damaged, soul-dead freaks and weirdo's who use card tricks to get chicks.



Make yourself into a man who's naturally attractive. This is the hardest way and it will take the longest time, but it's the way to go. James Bond don't need card tricks to pick up chicks.



Wanna know what I say to a girl I find cute and want to meet nowadays?

I just walk up to her and say: "Hi, I thought you were cute, I just wanted to meet you."


CRAZY ISN'T IT?

And guess what, this works wonders if you've got the confidence and awesomeness that's needed to pull it off.


The big secret:

All you need to do is be yourself.

If yourself isn't good enough, improve it till it is.
 

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snowdog said:
I never used techniques, lines or pickup tricks, EVER. Nor do I believe in them to give you complete satisfaction in what you're doing. Look at Mystery and his crew. They're a bunch of damaged, soul-dead freaks and weirdo's who use card tricks to get chicks.



Make yourself into a man who's naturally attractive. This is the hardest way and it will take the longest time, but it's the way to go. James Bond don't need card tricks to pick up chicks.



Wanna know what I say to a girl I find cute and want to meet nowadays?

I just walk up to her and say: "Hi, I thought you were cute, I just wanted to meet you."


CRAZY ISN'T IT?

And guess what, this works wonders if you've got the confidence and awesomeness that's needed to pull it off.


The big secret:

All you need to do is be yourself.

If yourself isn't good enough, improve it till it is.
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comic_relief
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thank you guys for all this help and honest answer

ill do that

theres anybody who had an idea how to begin with that all new stuff for me ?

what should i do ???

i need to read some books or some stuff ??
 

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TheMale said:
thank you guys for all this help and honest answer

ill do that

theres anybody who had an idea how to begin with that all new stuff for me ?

what should i do ???

i need to read some books or some stuff ??
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

My suggestions just go workout and forget about girls entirely. Work on yourself until you truly become happy without women. I know this will be hard, but it will be well worth it in the long run.

I don't know if you read my newest post in the tips section, but I think that could be a template for you to look at. I read posts for almost a year and worked on myself without women in it.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=183063

- comic_relief
 

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TheMale said:
badmannaz the women not always choose ... theres this thing that gambler do its 'stealth attraction' i tried it some times and its workin imagine your in the train you see a girl who reading a book youre like tryin to read the name of the book the girl see it a lil bit pantomime and then the conversation is on ... you dont need to wait until she choose you

and about working on myself im ok with that personnaly thats what im doin but its like you are a sexy guy (lets say brad pitt) and if a women choose you but you dont know how to be interesting (with DHV routine cold reading and all that stuff) it aint gonna work you can be a greek god but if you dont know how to deal with women (im not talking about the H2G or preselection but im talking about the conversation and all the stuff mentioned up) it aint gonna work
so yes i understand we need to focus on ourself but from here what are you doin to attract build attraction connection close with a women ???
dude i've been in game for awhile and all this seduction **** is for the birds u either haVE what she wants or dont....stop wanting chicks And just go for the chick..and they DO CHOOSE....every woman must CHOOSE TO REJECT OR ACCEPT YOUR ADVANCE....:rolleyes: rookies....u wouldn't b here if u didnt need change!! i just b.anged a chick last thursday and didnt know her name or even talk to her for more than 5 minutes...it has nothing to do with what you say she's already made up her mind before you even open your mouth so WORK ON YOU MY MAN AND LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST...THATS HOW U GET EM DUDE
 

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ok bro
thank you guys
i have another question
i know theres a lot of threads about californication and how hank moody is a real DJ
but firs question :
why women are attracted to him excepted sexuality ?? cause hes an artist ? even though sometimes the women dont know that ...
second question:
when you say 'assume your sexuality' is hank moody doin it right or its to much fiction
i mean for exemple S04E10 abby told him : 'i'm serious i gonna cut your d!ck off'
and then hank answered : 'and .... i'm hard'
and hes always doin that before he even fu(k the chick theres a lot of exemple like when a girl were not gonna have sex and he answer for that i need to be hard and im not !
her: 'my name his trixie '
me: 'its a terrific name ... if youre a hooker'

ive always use this sexual things but smoothly and not direct
exemple :
me: 'what are you looking for at first in a guy?'
she: 'his eyes'
me: 'lier i saw you staring at my ass'

or if i said 'ill be back in a minute' and then im coming back and she say : 'it was fast'
me: 'dont worry im taking all my time in bed'

so whats the good way to be that sexual guy ??
 
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chicks love a man who embraces his man-hood....do that and your golden...talk to women in ways that make them feel weaker than u and vulnerable...thats what they want and thats what turn them on...less is more...the less u can talk to a woman to get your message across is always better for u..too much talking = friends = no pvssy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Badmannaz said:
too much talking = friends = no pvssy
like this formula !!! ;p

but what about the sexuality is hank moody exemples good or mine is better ??? why ?

but i just think about something
one of the problemes of the nice guy is that he show a lot of interest in the girl
but how can i be natural and not a nice guy ???
of ill be sexual a man a lifestyle
but if i come to a girl with my intention and show it
so :
me:'hey you look cute and i just wanna know you'
she:'blah blah blah'
me :'cool gimmeyour number'
then what happened i show a lot of interest in her i listen to her (according to pook) and make a lote of eye contact etc etc.

so what the difference between the nice guy who showin a lot of interest and you who showin a lot of iterest (excepted all i said up - sexuality lifestyle and DHV ...) ?????

i know i have a lot of questions but i really wanna become a don juan and i cant do that without geting it !
 

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coll man im gonna read that in tonight
but what about all the questions i asked can someone make it clear for me please ??

p.s. what about all that neg theory and the sh!t test and all this ***** shield ??
 
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