I don't know maybe its just me but if I go visit my extended family or invited to someone's house where I know certain women, I feel apprehensive about the greeting part of it.
Like when I go over to my aunt's, I don't feel like hugging and kissing her on the cheeks, like other's who come into her house do. It just doesn't feel right but I still go along with it from time to time so I don't appear like a cold a$$hole.
Also I dislike kissing or hugging chicks whom I am not interested in or who I know do not view me in a sexual manner because I feel as if their greeting towards me is not really genuine (its fake) and everything is just for show (sometimes it almost feels like I am stooping down to their level and they pretty much cut my balls off when I do go out of my way to greet them like that). I mean with guys, I am comfortable with a good solid handshake but with women it doesn't really fly. If its a chick I am seeing then its no problem, I greet her with a good kiss on her lips.
Anybody just want to say fvck it to this socially contrived form of greeting?!
Like when I go over to my aunt's, I don't feel like hugging and kissing her on the cheeks, like other's who come into her house do. It just doesn't feel right but I still go along with it from time to time so I don't appear like a cold a$$hole.
Also I dislike kissing or hugging chicks whom I am not interested in or who I know do not view me in a sexual manner because I feel as if their greeting towards me is not really genuine (its fake) and everything is just for show (sometimes it almost feels like I am stooping down to their level and they pretty much cut my balls off when I do go out of my way to greet them like that). I mean with guys, I am comfortable with a good solid handshake but with women it doesn't really fly. If its a chick I am seeing then its no problem, I greet her with a good kiss on her lips.
Anybody just want to say fvck it to this socially contrived form of greeting?!