"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dont expect troll treatment.

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It pisses me off when admins delete my legitimate posts and don't give an explanation. I don't expect troll treatment. I posted a legitimate question about me being too truthful with females about the male lifestyle, to find not only the answer to this question but other DJs opinions on it. How much about the male lifestyle can you speak of to a woman, without giving her the wrong impression. In fact, how much can you speak of the male lifestyle in the Public Domain without giving everyone the wrong impression? How much of a man can you come off as without seeming like a stupid, arrogant blockhead? Thanks, whoever deleted my post.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's only a matter of time before this whole forum gets shut down. It's worthless now.
 

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They need to either get rid of the Anything Else forum, or let it really be what the title says, without deleting threads they don't like.

I guess the purpose of this web site is to promote the DJ Newsletter? That seems to be how it gets by without ads. The biggest problem is that the site will only handle about 150 users at once. If sosuave's owner won't pay for more bandwidth, he needs to get rid of AE to save space. I really like the AE section, but it would be worth the sacrifice to have a web site that works all of the time.
 

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me too

just like my tip i posted which was funny but not a terrible tip got moved to anything else but it was really deleted .

it looked like this:

break up rules by penkitten very funny

1 throw away all your underwear and go buy new ones
dont let anyone new catch you in something an ex saw you in.
2 at least one time, get some friends together and tell them to treat you to a "im single/broke up/ divorce " party. get wasted and dance with anyone you can. tell them its your birthday and that your girl left you for some punk at her work.
3 everytime you get all weepy and are reminded of her because some cheesy song comes on the radio, drink epatac, it will associate her with vomit and help when it comes to no contact.
4 change your cologne, its time to attrack a new mate.
5 just because you are attracking a new mate, doesnt mean you have to settle down for a long time, so you ride that wave as long as you can until you yearn for a relationship again.
6 if you ever see her out in a club now that you are single, make like you dont see her if possible and go dance with the hottest chick you can even if you have to tell her that your buddy bet you a beer that you couldnt. if its not possible, just say "wassupp" and pass by. make it like she doesnt bother you at all .
7. pack up her remains , the faster your not looking at pictures the better.
8 call your mother and say mother why didnt you tell me shed break my heart? mothers will see that you eat and dont get depressed and will start checking out the chicks you date and let you know up front what kind of girl she is. your mother is smart and loves you, send your mother roses for never leaving you.
9 crank up these hot hits:
i will survive by cake
song for the dumped by ben folds five
ohio is for lovers by hawthorne heights
deeper than down by outspoken
my letter by flaw
10 remember to keep humor in your life or you will shirvel up and die and i hope something on this list made you laugh twice. there are other fish in the sea, let go of the shark and go up for air, a dolphin will come along shortly and you can ride the waves with her. however if you dont let go of the shark, you will never see the dolphin and the shark will kill you. you never know how many fish will come your way before the dolphin arrives, so be on your toes and mingle.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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3 everytime you get all weepy and are reminded of her because some cheesy song comes on the radio, drink epatac, it will associate her with vomit and help when it comes to no contact.

haha thats definitly the best one.
 

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I agree on the whole deleting issue. What they don't realize, is that even though it may have been addressed before, a lot of the questions are worded differently and can be asking something thats way different than what the search brings up, and that the users change, so even though its been addressed before, it was by different people on the forum, which can lead to many different opinions and answers.
 
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