“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't chat with girls on the phone

TheMonkeyKing

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I never talk to plates on the phone.

The only times I have spoken with a plate on the phone in the last year is for 30seconds to a minute, to find them when they get lost on their way to meeting me.

I don’t phone them for an hour-long ‘chat’. That’s what she has her girlfriends, beta-hangers-on, gay best friends and family for. You wanna put yourself in the same frame as that group of people, go ahead and call her every week for gossip. I personally would rather be the mysterious outsider than have her same neurones firing for you as for the beta boy next door; safe to presume it’s not that little bundle in her cl1toris.

It makes me do a bit of sick when I read guys on here talking about calling this girl and that girl, ‘her not answering/retuning my call/talked to this plate for like and hour on the phone, but now she’s gone cold’. You wonder why she doesn’t call you back? Because she’s got some alpha making serious moves on her (rather than calling for weeks on end) down the pub while your number makes her phone (and only her phone) tingle in her handbag.

By regularly phoning a girl you have designs on rather than meeting face to face, you are reducing your physical exposure ratio and therefore physical attractiveness: she can’t see or grasp your rippling bicep as you console her about her annoying colleague; you cannot cop a cheeky feel or make-out as you start to get a bit tipsy over a ****tail (or three); you cannot display all the non-verbal cues of your worth and gauge those of her attraction.

In this world of now endless electronic comms, the only contact I maintain with my plates is text message. And even that is extremely casual; and very, very rarely email.

-No facebook/instagram/twitter: she has another 500 suitors chasing/PM’ing/’liking’ (read: licking her ass) her therein. I am unique because I am not one of them. Plus I don’t give a flying f*ck what she had for lunch.
-No phone calls: see above.
-No messenger: same difference as phone calls. In fact it’s worse because she can’t even hear your voice.
-No Skype: you’re tormenting you both by doing this. I’m no avatar. I prefer the real thing. Plus I just bought a new (clean) keyboard.

The only contact worth its investment is face to face (and casual text, to arrange face to face). You can’t anchor anything with a phone call/facebook/skype. But with face to face, opportunity always knocks.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Agreed.

People bash texting all the time; when I have been so successful with texting and know people who game with texting.

If it's used casually and carefully, texting is your best friend. You can call them like, once, for the initial wahtsup. , but keep that **** to like 1 minute at max.
 

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I hate talking on the phone, had this one plate that loved to talk on the phone....I told her I don't and she would still call every day to talk on the damn phone! Talk about annoying
 

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This subject has been done to death. Its 2014. Text is the primary form of communication. Fvck talking on the phone for more than 3 minutes.
 

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LoveAfter2009 said:
Agreed.

People bash texting all the time; when I have been so successful with texting and know people who game with texting.

If it's used casually and carefully, texting is your best friend. You can call them like, once, for the initial wahtsup. , but keep that **** to like 1 minute at max.
word. Every plate I've had has preferred text over phone. And yes, if you have text game you will clean up.
 
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skinnyguy said:
word. Every plate I've had has preferred text over phone. And yes, if you have text game you will clean up.
That and this. Text all u want just make sure ur good at it. fk calling. that shiiiit is mad old school
 

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Glad so many seem to agree.

Anyone phoning/facebooking/re-tweeting some chick in hope of scoring a lay is f*cking deluded.

One recent previous plate, I never phoned and I had sex with her three times. My current main plate (a good 9 when made up), I've called once because she was lost when meeting me. I had sex with her three times in the last week.
 
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