"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i don't chase. they come to me. how about you?

Fatality

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post a pic of yourself and the girls that approach you


otherwise this is just an ego boosting thread
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I do agree it is partly an ego boosting thread. The original poster could've just made a point that he usually gets more girls or has more success when he doesn't chase without going into detailed encounters.

But all that aside, I think there is a good message to this thread. Theres nothing wrong with having girls approach you. If you like a girl, it doesn't mean you have to try to flirt with her, tease her, do all this bs just to get her to like you. Sometimes, you can just be yourself and let things happen naturally...let her chase you. This kinda thing works really well with friends of friends, acquiantences and 'warm approches'.

I wouldn't rely 100% on this though. Mix it up with chasing, and being chased.

PS - GodsGiftToWomen, we know you're great at picking up girls you are very confident and such. There is no need to put down everyone else who doesn't share the same lifestyle as you.
 

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Wow, that's the shyt well hey man i'm glad that girls seem to drop the panties everywhere you go. However Girls ALSO chase me, however it dosen't happen nearly as much as i'd like. I get a lot of attention where i go, and yeah i guess if i counted every girl that's liked me and chased after me, i'd have to say it happens a lot however not all the girls that do in fact MOST that do i don't even like or wanna chase back. So if i don't get out there and sarge, and get the chicks i want. Then it'll be months before one i do like chases me.

simply put dude, post a pic of yourself so i can see what all the girls are chasin cuz this is what i look like. and i can say i get chased and yah i get attention

http://myspace-943.vo.llnwd.net/00035/34/95/35845943_l.jpg

and here to.

http://myspace-631.vo.llnwd.net/00036/13/64/36424631_l.jpg
 

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Originally posted by chance
fuk no. i'm not asking you to believe me. but it's all true my friend. i'm african/american and i'm not ugly. that's all you need to know. don't think i'm up myself now cause i said i wasn't ugly... thats just honesty. to get a better image, many people say i look like lenny kravitz. i have an afro too. i gotta admit. looks do matter plenty and it's a bonus for us fellas.
Agree 100%.

You are good looking and you know it! Chicks see this and they love it! Of all the girls I have dated, I have barely had to chase. It is usually mutual, and mostly because they initiate it.
 
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