This has nothing to do with girls, but i just realized that i'll never fit in anywhere because of the stupid culture and enviorment i live in. I live in Georgia, and I'm half chinese half white. I don't even look that asian, but the fact that I'm asian follows me everywhere. I get called racial names, and I don't get respect because of it. I've heard Every stereotype thrown at me directly, and I don't fit any of those stereotypes. I don't have dime slit eyes, although they aren't as big as a full white person, I'm not short, I'm actually over 6 ft tall, I don't have straight, pointy, jet black hair, instead i've got brown curly hair, but i still get this crap. EVEN A TEACHER, I SWEAR TO GOD, A TEACHER RACIALLY PROFILED ME THE OTHER DAY. The asian kids hate me because i'm whitewashed, and the white kids will never fully accept me. My best friend is actually a white washed black kid, and we're such good friends because we both don't fit in. I've got friends, I'm not hated, and I'm pretty popular, but I'll always live with being an outcast because of my ethnicity. Girls give me ****, guys give me ****, my friends give me ****, my freaking family gives me crap. I wish I weren't multi-racial. People tell me to embrace my heritage, but how can I embrace it when i'll never be accepted?
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I don't belong anywhere and i never will
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TravisBickle
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Trust me, bi-racial (yes, even 1/2 asian) is a HUGE plus. Maybe not in GA, but in northeast city, girls go nuts over the exotic factor. My buddy is 1/2 asian/white, a real cool fun guy, and has an awesome girlfriend and a fun life. Try coming to the northeast for college. If you're older, consider working here down the road.
It's also a huge disadvantage. Half the people are racist, and probably wouldn't want me dating their daughter regardless if she liked me or not. I'll probably go to UGA anyways. It'll save money for me financially. I'll probably go to medical school somewhere away from athens, georgia.
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if you're serious about going to med school, you should try to go to the best college you can and where you'll be happiest and work best. UGA has a solid rep, but if you can get into a better college, it will help especially if you want to go to med school in the northeast. I'm saying this from experience: 90%+ of my class (top med school in northeast) went to an ivy, an ivy-equivalent, or a top LAC. If you don't differentiate yourself enough, it might be tougher to get into a northeast school (where you might be happier). Don't limit yourself geographically, and if you're unhappy in GA it might affect your work ethic. The loans will eventually get paid off.Jokerlsk said:
Regardless of what you do, don't go to GA Tech. GPA nightmare.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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MisterMcGee
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Move? You live in a sh!tty place. fvck 'em
Finances aren't a problem. We get hope in GA, and I definitely qualify for that, and it would just be easy for me. My parents have saved a lot of money up for me, and I'll be able to go to college without much debt almost anywhere. I'm only a sophomore in highschool at the moment though, and I don't want to be a heart surgeon or anything. I want to be an eye doctor.
Suck it up for a while until you finish school and then move to a big city for your college/university.
In the mean time, work on being a better person. Work out, study, be friendly. When you move to a bigger city and start university you're whole life will change.
In the mean time, work on being a better person. Work out, study, be friendly. When you move to a bigger city and start university you're whole life will change.
Stop whining like a little b1tch. "boo whoo nobody will accept me"
As a man thinks...so a man is. You are right no one will accept you, because you don't accept yourself. Stop trying to fit into one box. You have to realise there are no boxes. You are many things. You are a man, you are asian, you are white, you are american, you are human, you are good and evil, you are smart, you are stupid about somethings, you are glorious at times and ugly at others. You are just a person and not a unique little snowflake, and you are special to yourself and the ones you love. You have to accept all of that sh1t man. When you accept the good and bad, you'll become one with yourself, once you feel at peace with who you are, you will feel at peace with others and in turn they will feel at peace with you. Basically yours is a problem of self love and self confidence or self esteem. Change what you believe at your world will change.
Our brains are designed to pick out patterns to justify our beliefs. So if you believe something, your mind looks for evidence to justify it. Your mind shows you evidence that people like you, but your beliefs (ego, gremlin) throws fears up to prevent you from changing your beliefs. YOu know the truth deep down that people like you, but you devil, your ego, your gremlin whispers lies to you and you believe them instead because they go with the fear you have. Be brave and overcome that fear. That's what a man has to do everyday until he dies if he wants to call himself a man. We are all afraid of something, it's what you do about it that matters.
BTW. People give you crap because you let them. They smell your weakness and prey on it. This also helps to keep you in your place below them. Watch those same people turn to haters when you stop taking crap. Do you take crap off people so you can be liked? Are you afraid of really shining and being your best self? Do you dim yourself down to walk amongst the sheep? You don't have to. YOu can be who you really want to. Stop taking crap off people. Stand up for yourself and watch your life change.
Good luck.
As a man thinks...so a man is. You are right no one will accept you, because you don't accept yourself. Stop trying to fit into one box. You have to realise there are no boxes. You are many things. You are a man, you are asian, you are white, you are american, you are human, you are good and evil, you are smart, you are stupid about somethings, you are glorious at times and ugly at others. You are just a person and not a unique little snowflake, and you are special to yourself and the ones you love. You have to accept all of that sh1t man. When you accept the good and bad, you'll become one with yourself, once you feel at peace with who you are, you will feel at peace with others and in turn they will feel at peace with you. Basically yours is a problem of self love and self confidence or self esteem. Change what you believe at your world will change.
Our brains are designed to pick out patterns to justify our beliefs. So if you believe something, your mind looks for evidence to justify it. Your mind shows you evidence that people like you, but your beliefs (ego, gremlin) throws fears up to prevent you from changing your beliefs. YOu know the truth deep down that people like you, but you devil, your ego, your gremlin whispers lies to you and you believe them instead because they go with the fear you have. Be brave and overcome that fear. That's what a man has to do everyday until he dies if he wants to call himself a man. We are all afraid of something, it's what you do about it that matters.
BTW. People give you crap because you let them. They smell your weakness and prey on it. This also helps to keep you in your place below them. Watch those same people turn to haters when you stop taking crap. Do you take crap off people so you can be liked? Are you afraid of really shining and being your best self? Do you dim yourself down to walk amongst the sheep? You don't have to. YOu can be who you really want to. Stop taking crap off people. Stand up for yourself and watch your life change.
Good luck.
Exactly. If you're not bi-racial, they'll pick on other things: too tall, too short, bad hair, big nose, hairy neck etc.Warrior74 said:
As a man, make your own castle. You don't have to rely on others to make you feel you "belong" to anywhere. You're not a domestic animal!
All this whining about people giving you sh!t is pathetic. I see this in a lot of kids these days. Their parents failed them when they were younger and didn't teach them how to deal with it. Or they did, but they only told the kids to ignore it and as a result, turned them into pvssies. Nobody gives me sh!t coz they know I give it back just as bad if not a lot worse.
Grow some chest hair and a pair down there!
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We all have something about us that makes us self concious, even those that laugh at you have their own imperfections. Going to another place wont take away the fact that you are Bi-Racial. Stay exactly where you are, live happly and don't give a damn about what other people think about you.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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I live in Georgia... I've lived here for 9 years of my life, but it's in Atlanta. I could see this happening in the more redneck areas, but if you plan on going to Athens it's really diverse. I think you'll fit in just fine.
Buddy, I live in a hick town right outside of athens. Literally 2 minutes away. I understand where you guys are coming from though. I need to be proud of who I regardless of what anyone says. Because that's what a man does. A man doesn't give a damn about what others have to say about him, and although I'm not a man just yet, that's what i want to be, and I'm not going to let stupid **** get in my way
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Heres my advice: FIGHT AND STICK UP FOR YOURSELF. Dont take anyone's sh*t, and if someone starts making fun of your ethnicity, punch them in their fvcking face. Trust me, EVERYONE will have A LOT more respect for you if you fight back, prove your tough, and stop taking sh*t.
Your a sophmore in highschool, the same grade I was in when I punched this fat piece of sh*t in the face for making fun of my family. Trust me, word gets around the grade REALLY fast, and people are gonna be talking about you saying how you had the guts and balls to fight back and hit someone.
No one, i kid you not, NO ONE, messes with me now. Simply because they have respect for me and know that im willing to stand up for myself.
Your a sophmore in highschool, the same grade I was in when I punched this fat piece of sh*t in the face for making fun of my family. Trust me, word gets around the grade REALLY fast, and people are gonna be talking about you saying how you had the guts and balls to fight back and hit someone.
No one, i kid you not, NO ONE, messes with me now. Simply because they have respect for me and know that im willing to stand up for myself.
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i think it's your location dude.
i live in california, and had friends of all different colors. what youre describing is something people in my area, my age dont think about at all, mexicans, asians, indians, whatever, you would forget the person was a different race, and rarely would i be hanging out with all white people, it was always a good mix that just happened organically based on other traits like taste in things, intelligence, etc
im white, my cousins are half japanese, and im pretty sure they fit in better than i do in society
ive traveled around the states enough to know that people ARE different in different areas, move to a cosmopolitan area on the east or west coast!!
i live in california, and had friends of all different colors. what youre describing is something people in my area, my age dont think about at all, mexicans, asians, indians, whatever, you would forget the person was a different race, and rarely would i be hanging out with all white people, it was always a good mix that just happened organically based on other traits like taste in things, intelligence, etc
im white, my cousins are half japanese, and im pretty sure they fit in better than i do in society
ive traveled around the states enough to know that people ARE different in different areas, move to a cosmopolitan area on the east or west coast!!