"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i dont attract women for long

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hi i would say im quite funny man and flirty and i can hold converstaion with a girl and i usually even though im not good looking i can still attract women and pretty ones too.
however.... after a few dates and they spend more time with me at home or out of a date situation they tend to all get board very quickly and its killing me trying to figure out why.
yes ive been guilty of been insecure and at times too available but how do i keep that spark going
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Infern0

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This is exactly what use to happen to me. I actually even in my AFC days wasn't TOO bad at initially attracting women, but i'd blow it fast.

You just have a knowledge gap.

Read the DJ bible and come back here with any questions.

You are probably decent looking, and intellegent but have no game. You can get game.
 
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