"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i dont attract women for long

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hi i would say im quite funny man and flirty and i can hold converstaion with a girl and i usually even though im not good looking i can still attract women and pretty ones too.
however.... after a few dates and they spend more time with me at home or out of a date situation they tend to all get board very quickly and its killing me trying to figure out why.
yes ive been guilty of been insecure and at times too available but how do i keep that spark going
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Infern0

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This is exactly what use to happen to me. I actually even in my AFC days wasn't TOO bad at initially attracting women, but i'd blow it fast.

You just have a knowledge gap.

Read the DJ bible and come back here with any questions.

You are probably decent looking, and intellegent but have no game. You can get game.
 
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