first, the girl wasn't doing it right in front of my dad, I told him about it once she left.
You are right, white women aren't just knocking down my door to be with me, but I get my fare share of interested women, and that's all you can really ask for, espically since I don't try. And then I hate black men who will talk to a white women, simply for the fact that she is white. Looks arent everything, but come on, sometimes it's pretty bad.
As far as talking to women, the key is to "get it wet" and leave. What I mean by that, don't try to hold a long, long conversation because you have better things to do. That's part of my persona, I am not one for beating around the bush. Don't get me wrong, I will talk, but soon, sooner rather than later, I am going to get to the point that I am trying to make, unless we are having an extremely interesting conersation.
Stay clear from politics, religion (espically for me, i'm athetist), and work and past bf's and you will be fine.
Always ask questions that have a purpose. Don't make pointless conversations. Like I said earlier, assume they want to be with you, so ask closing questions. Every question you ask you need to be closer to the goal when you are actually trying to close. But remember if you are like me, I don't 'APPROACH' women. I make them comfortable to the point where they want to continue talking to me, therefore making it very convenent to give me their number.
The clothes I wear are pretty nice, but I wouldn't say overly expensive. The most expensive things I wear are sportsjacks,... I odn't skimp on thoose because I can tell the differernce in quality, but I dont' have a sportsjacket over $500 and that's just one, which is burberry. Most I get for around $75 off of ebay, my fav, a red dkny blazer I got off ebay for like $65 dollars.
I do come off as a guy with money. When me and my friends go out, I get the tab... I make the most money and I they can use their money better than that. But I just don't throw hundreds around, and when people ask me what I do I always say I am accountant, becuase technically that's what I do all day; look at numbers.
Car, car is a 1999 tan lexus SC300 with 19" Gevonnini rims. I also have a 94" car exact same model, but emeralg green that I use for work and I bought my GF a 98" Camery around 2 months ago that I drive now and then. I want to get a Range Rover, and I can afford it (both of my cars are paid for by my company) but I live in an apartment, and
I might be overdoing it. What i REALLY want is a Astin Martin but I would be sick thinking about thoose car payments.
Anyway, let me tell you what happened liast night. This is the crap I have to deal with.
Yesterday I am done with work early, decide not to go the horse track because I want to go today instead. So I am playing Madden 2005 (i am on vacation, i'm not that lazy) with my 2 friends and this girl, the girl that I met at the bar around my BD that was married and I eneded up having sex with, called me out of the blue.
We are on speaking terms, but we really don't talk anymore, she just got a divorice and needed to space herself from me because I was still trying to hit when she was in a "time of need".
So she asks me what I am doing later that night and asked if I am going out, which I was. She then mentions sthat she is single again (which she knew i didn't care about in the first place) and that it would be a shame if my GF was there with me because we needed to dance together. We had a nice little convo, and we talked about what happened a couple of months ago
, etc. HOnestly it felt good talking to hear again, that's some good *****, and we do get alone great.
So as luck would have it, my GF decided she didn't want to go out, so I went out myself. I am up there chiling and she comes throgh the door. After playing footsie to see who would approach who first, I went up to her and sat down with her and her friends and we talked, mainly me trying to ****. I had her going to the point where she said we would leave after she finished her drink.
So we get on the dance floor and her friends were dancing with each other, and pulled her from me, whcih was no biggie. But then she was dancing on this white dude. Now, this is my point. I don't care who you dance with, hell I was ****ing you when you were married, you think I give a damn about some white dude that had no game? But what I DO care about is the fact that you practially begged me to come up here to see you, alone might I
add, but when I get up here, I can't even get a real dance and you are off dancing with another guy?
BUT...
Then I caught myself and laughed. She is a Freak. Any girl that will **** me while she is married is a freak. This is what freaks do, they are very predictable. They know you want to ****, so they use their ***** as leverage. Now what she Wanted me to do was to get out of control and lose my emotions over another guy, because she knew what she was doing. But what I did was sit on the dance floor. When she came back to get her phone that was in my pocket, i made a comment about her not wanting to be around me around her friends and her sister (which I do think is true, not that it matters that much however) so I gave her
the phone back and chilled the rest of the night. I
saw a girl I used to **** around with and we kicked it the rest of the night.
When they closed, she caught me on the way out of the door and put her arm around me, and told me "I didn't have to throw my phone at her" (I didn't, I tossed it, but I was under the influence so I might have thrown it
). She told me that she didn't even have enough time to dance with me and that if I am going to a certain club saturday she will be sure to make it up.
However I won't make the same mistake twice. If I go to that club, it will be because I want to, not because I am following *****, no matter how good it is, and boy is it good.
She is going to come over my house monday while my GF is at work, so we will hook up then anyway.
I am going out saturday, just don't know where. Might very well end up going there, but I won't go because of her.
