"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don´t have any motivation

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It seems like there are no hot chicks where I live. I have zero motivation to game them because I´m just not attracted to them. Where I´m from 90% of the girls are mediocre looking and they smoke like crackheads, are fat, drink alot and they believe they are the hottest chicks in the world. Most of them have AFC boyfriends, too. However I just don´t wanna date any of them. If I´m lucky I get to see an HB8 once a month without a real chance to approach her cuz they usually are there with their boyfriends. Even when I go clubbing I hardly ever see any hot girls. It seems like I live the town with the most unfriendly and ugly chicks in the whole world (people here are known for being very unfriendly). How can I motivate myself to go sarging?

ps: I´m 18 and from Germany in case it matters...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I thought Germany and Sweeden and those places were reknown for their beautiful women? Thats weird I guess not Germany. Stop beating it. Try for like once a week man.
 

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IamtheAlphamale said:
I thought Germany and Sweeden and those places were reknown for their beautiful women? Thats weird I guess not Germany. Stop beating it. Try for like once a week man.

Montreal is by far the best place i have seen. Amazing women........... like everywhere
 

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of course i like azn women as well so 'id be saying japan as well
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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IamtheAlphamale said:
I thought Germany and Sweeden and those places were reknown for their beautiful women? Thats weird I guess not Germany. Stop beating it. Try for like once a week man.
Sweden is known for beautiful women. Germany is known for Hitler. The good thing is however I´ll soon be in the states to go to college there with 70% women. Are there any hot chicks in Iowa?
 

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ChrizZ said:
Sweden is known for beautiful women. Germany is known for Hitler.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: Funniest thing I've read all day!



The good thing is however I´ll soon be in the states to go to college there with 70% women. Are there any hot chicks in Iowa?
Every chick I know from Iowa is fat and boring. But that's just stereotyping. :yes:
 
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